What do you think of guys who will pay for the first three dates, but after that, will ask their date to either go dutch, or take turns paying?
2006-10-28 19:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a gentlemen
2006-10-28 19:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It entirely depends on the couple. I, for one, am a feminist who would never let a guy pay for me. Therefore, I would expect the guy to split the check with me. However, in earlier days, i would have expected the guy to keep paying. If you are dating a girl who wants to be princessed and you want a princess, you'd better fork over the dinner dinero if you think she's the one. If you don't want a prima donna, I guess you'll find out whether you had one when she's offended that you aren't spoiling her as Daddy does.
If all else fails, ask yourself this: WWWBD? (What Would Warren Buffett Do?) and I think you know the answer: The billionaire is a miser. He'd drive his Geico-insured car through a yummy Berkshire-owned franchise like DQ and demand she pay for her half AND her half of the gas. Unless, of course, he could find a way to pump a little food into her and reap millionfold output... hey, wait, I think I just figured out why guys have been paying for so long.
Best of luck, buddy.
2006-10-29 01:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydaygirl19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think of women who think they should constantly sponge off men?
Sounds like you will take a long time to learn that relationships are about sharing and caring.
The term given to women that expect the guy to pay all the time is 'leech' and it is well deserved! Those women get talked about a lot - men advise each other to stay away from that little gold digger!
2006-10-29 01:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest and frank with her. Just tell her you are short on funds and if the next date would she mind going dutch. If she throws a fit, she's not the girl for you.. I personally would love a guy whose honest rather than one who pays but underneath is seathing and mad that he keeps having to pay.. (I also wouldnt mind paying my portion of the tab if its further on in the relationship)
2006-10-29 01:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mintee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think of a relationship being single sided...or at one person's expense...? What do you think of a person being used?
It's chivalrous for a man to pay...and most women find that honorable...some women...an insult. Eventually...love is 50/50 and if it isn't....it isn't love.
2006-10-29 01:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Darrick U 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his pockets aren't as deep as you may think...You ought to be glad he is still seeing you. Times are hard. Don't make it harder for him. If you still want to see him and he wants to still see you, you're good to go! Don't let money (or lack there of) come between a seemingly good relationship.
Compromise...and have fun!
2006-10-29 01:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what his income is. If hes well off I'd wonder about him, but with times like they are economically and women wanting to be equal I can understand why he might prefer that. Either way if its something you dont like you could drop him. Since he is comfortable enough to ask you to share expenses you might ask him about it yourself.
2006-10-29 01:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheep
2006-10-29 01:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by Big Eagle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be running out of money!
2006-10-29 01:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't go out with him anymore.
2006-10-29 01:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋