A few weeks ago, I told this guy that I like him. He said he didn't want a girlfriend at the moment. Last night, we went on a double date with two of my friends and ended up holding hands, making out, and falling asleep next to each other on the couch. Do you think he still feels like he doesn't want a girlfriend or has this changed? Everything was so romantic. I'm just afraid that it was a one night thing...not necesarilly a one night stand since we didn't sleep together. I'm really starting to fall for this guy, but i'm confused as to what is going on in his mind.
2006-10-28 18:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by texasbabe19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's kind of a hard question to answer....
I guess it depends on his reason for not wanting a girlfriend at the moment.
He told you straight up that he wasn't wanting one, which makes me think that yes, it might be a one night stand, but again it stems from his reasoning.
Hopefully, for your sake, that it has something to do with him possibly being hurt in the past, and not wanting to be hurt again.
I'd talk to him and ask him what the other night meant to him. Was it casual, or is this something serious?
I'd do this ASAP as you've mentioned that you're falling for him. If he protests that he still isn't interested in a girlfriend, you'd best call it quits, as you don't want to be hurt any worse by him stringing you along.
Good luck.
2006-10-28 18:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 04:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic is nice and it is wonderful to feel that you are desired, but the real question is: If he doesn't like you enough for a commited relationship because he can't handle it (NOT because of YOU...Trust me on this, I KNOW), then do you like yourself enough to stay away from the flirting and getting physical before you know for sure. The one thing that always gets you hurt is getting physical with a man/boy before he has expressed commitment. A lot of guys don't want commitment, are very clear about that from the start, and want you anyway - not more than physically or friends with touch - watch out!. Don't get in that trap. You are too vulnerable because you like him. Please be careful with your heart; you're the only one taking care of it. I wish you well..
2006-10-29 01:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by JF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he likes you. Perhaps he did change his mind. Ask him where you two stand. Say, "Listen, you said you didn't want a girlfriend, but we had a really nice time the other night. Do you wanna give it a shot or what?"
Good luck.
2006-10-29 01:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow and remember to have fun with him but don't crowd him
be his friend and if he wants anything to happen he will spend time with you and drop hints as to his intentions
chances are though that you are both still young enough to want to experience life a bit more before settling down so chill
you guys should enjoy life :)
2006-10-29 01:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by mat s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot him in the foot with a super soaker then smack him over the head with a couch .. and then make him eat a nasty hot dog u dropped on dog poop.. then ask him if he likes u... if he says yes.. then yeah he likes u enuff 2 be ur b/f
2006-10-29 01:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋