hi ...im a 17 years old girl..all alone..i bloody loved a guy in my country but we iimgrate to canada..it was such a hard time for us..we call each other but all the times we cry..my parents dont let me to come back ..they say my future is here..icant live without him..i cant study i cant do any thing without him..help me by sayin what should i eat to kill my self..no way
2006-10-28 18:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by darya 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can tell you that you really don't want to die, you just want the pain to stop. I know the feelings your having. I've attempted a couple of times and I'm glad I didn't succeed.
Do what I do when I'm upset, write. Write it out. Cry....get it out. Allow yourself to go through the mourning process. It's healthy and it's natural. Talk to people. Each day that goes by, it WILL get better and better.
One day you will stop crying and feeling bad because you will come to the realization that you're tired of feeling that way.
Killing yourself is not the answer. And it won't solve anything. People will feel terrible anguish afterwards, however, anger will set in. You don't want people angry with you.
You can get through this. One day at a time. Write out your thoughts. Cry. Talk to people. You're a lot stronger than you think you are!
YOU CAN DO IT!
2006-10-28 20:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by tikizgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darya stop take a deep breath relax why would you even think like that ? If you were to kill yourself you would really be away from him forever. You say you are 17 yrs you are almost turning 18 then you are able to go visit him and find out for yourself if it is meant to be . Life is this way ain't nothing we can not fix both of you save your money get a job and then meet each other..Tomorrow is another day. Plan ahead it will get better trust an old man you have your whole life ahead of you enjoy .And God bless you.You'll feel better in the morning..
2006-10-29 01:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. Life sucks sometimes. It might not get better but you don't want to kill youself. I mean, Hi, I'm a 15 year old kid who is addicted to some vile things. My dad died a few months ago. My brother is drinking and I'm failing in almost everything I do. I can't do school anymore. I can't write. I don't sleep anymore and I've nothing to live for. I won't be able to get into college if I can even make it out of high-school. Yeah, it sucks. But there's more to life than pain. Don't ask me what the heck it is but people talk about it all the time so there's gotta be something. Just look at yourself and ask if you'd rather risk the entire rest of your life over your hurt. Life really is a jerk but its not yours to end. You've got a time to live and it will end sometime but its not for you to choose.
2006-10-29 01:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i know you love this boy so much it hurts to breathe with out him. But if you trully love him and he loves you how can you kill yourself? The only way is give it time and maybe you can find a way to be together again. write and call often. Try not to cry on the phone talk about happy times you had together and will have again. You dont want him to kill himself for you do you. and dont say you made a suicide pack. That is not the way to do it.
2006-10-29 01:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T KILL YOUSELF.Read this "This to shall pass". I'm a true believer in that things don't stay wrong for long. Hold on to the things that you have like the phone calls. and soon you'll be 18 . Then you can go be with him, but you can't do that if you are not around so just hang on and when you think you can't hang on anymore just hang on tighter . Don't ever give up.
2006-10-29 01:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by regina g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a guy is a good reason to kill your self when your 18 you will be able to make your own decisions andd if you are still in love with this guy you can go to him but chances sre you will meet someone else
2006-10-29 01:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by bluec4grace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, the best man in your life is waiting for you when you are over 22. I tried suicide with several boys and I mean "boys" and now that I am 50 and happily found the man of mine dreams at age 23......I am glad I didn't die. You are young and going through hormonal changes as well as life and situational changes.....school, moving....Chill, and wait until you are 23-25 to get the guy of your REAL DREAMS....IT WILL HAPPEN, HAVE PATIENTS AND TRUST ME.
2006-10-29 01:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
killing yourself is one way of ending the heartache, but its not the best way...they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but also time heals all wounds..so just keep living..because death, well there is no coming back for that..there is no more love, joy, laughter, smiles..at least if youre still living you can one day see your man again..if youre dead..you never know, you may not ever see anyone again..so dont kill yourself, and dont stop loving.
peace
2006-10-29 01:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not kill myself if i were you. you will be in hell for eternity! you have your whole life ahead of you. always remember men come and go. if its meant for you to be with this guy, you will be in due time. enjoy being 17, focus on yourself. think positive and everything will work out, i promise!! god loves you- always remember that!!!! good luck!
2006-10-29 01:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by sweetthang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey u don't kill Ur smelt over a guy besides my mother always told me if it was mean for u if not then it wasn't u still have time to meet new guys and date don't get stuck on one guy
2006-10-29 01:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by tanishadilbert 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋