There is a guy who is interested in me, but he just turned 23yr. That is a 16yr age difference. I like him & he is everything I have been looking for in a man, but i'm not sure if it would last because of the age differnce.
2006-10-28 18:10:07 · 16 answers · asked by Samiann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am older.
2006-10-28 18:20:09 · update #1
If you don't know the answer to this, then forget it. "...everything I"ve been looking for in a man"...OK. What's the problem? I had a long, & absolutely joyous relationship with a man 16 years younger than I; I didn't want a long term commitment, & I ended it. We're still great friends. The last guy was 22 years younger! Never had more fun in my life! When you say you're not sure how long it will last, it seems you're looking for something quite different than I was. Any harm in enjoying him & finding out?
2006-10-28 18:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 07:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that age is and issue if he is an adult and you aren't even near being on yet. Try to ask him if he'll wait for you to become 18 and then you can be serious, but for now its best you keep it to friends or friendly flirting. You'll regret it in the future if you srew around with an older man and something bad happens, even if something bad doesn't happen, you'll still regret it.
2006-10-28 18:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by The Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should date a bit, see how and if it bothers you, but really it depends on him, if he makes you feel right, and is really for you, date for a few years, see what happens, you are both mature adults and can live how you want, some people are different levels, and you two may just be on the same one. just try it out, and if you have gut feelings, something is wrong, follow it. Good luck ^_^
2006-10-28 18:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Fuzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you older or younger. If your younger then he is an SICK PERVERTED CHOMO, and your parents WONT approve I gaurentee it, it is considered RAPE, and he doesnt love you, you just think your in love, trust me. Seriously, trust me. If your OLDER then him, go for it, no doubt, it can bring out the kid in you and there is nothin illegal about it. Hope this helps. Just my oppinion. Peace out. Lataz. Luv/Kodi
XOXOXO
PS, (if your younger, if your older dont bother on listening to this)
I mean it, Chica, you will be molested if he is really 16 yrs older then you. I swear, his love will never mean a lot to you, you need someone your age, you will get more out of it that way.
2006-10-28 18:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 years is a very young adult male. His tastes in life (and women) will change quickly and many times within the next 10 years. Don't count on a long term relationship with him until he matures a bit more.
2006-10-28 18:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get to an older age you both will look the same anyway. Might as well stay with him. When he is 96 and you are 80 I am pretty sure you will both look the same =)
2006-10-28 18:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nickname 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i have a 13 year age difference. We get along wonderful. My first husband and i however were the same age. Notice i said first husband. I have never been happier, i say go for it. It worked for me. Good Luck!
2006-10-28 18:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends girl cause im 16 and im goin out wit a guy that 20 4 yrs is that diffrence and love him to death we have been together for 5 yrs but ima tell u somthin dont ever trust a guy somtimes all they want is to get in ur pants then live u and u dont want to have a bf that just wants sex but if u feel that his the right guy for u then stay wit him just dont give him wat he wants till u know his the right guy for u
2006-10-28 18:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by jazmine a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 7 or 39? Either way, that's a problem
2006-10-28 18:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋