well tonite i went to a party he was there and at first he didnt see me or whateva so u know i in tha party dancing and **** so mi cuzin want to go out for a min so i went with her cause that dude she wit was all over another female too but tell me y the hell this ***** go got damn be with this other female but before that he look me in mi eye talkin bout some bull **** I LOVE YOU now u know im pissed but i really didnt believe him but its just the fact that u know he was there with another female and then gone lie so i left the party mi cuzin trying to get me to come back down there bout i dont think i can cause me and this ***** done been together for FOUR YEARS
2006-10-28 18:09:38 · 15 answers · asked by ~Mz. Mickey Mouse~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's time to find a better boyfriend.
2006-10-28 18:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl first ask your this question: Is he worth it? When somebody really Loves someone...They would do anything for them and wouldn't even think of cheating.... Cheating is one of the first signs that they don't love you and don't care.. so why are you going to stress out and be with someone that doesn't care about you... you need a man in your life not a boy that likes to play games... you two have been togther for four years, thats very long and i'm sure you really love him.. but if he cheated on you now what makes you think he won't do it again in the future... get out of this relationship if you are not happy... If he doesn't make you happy and complete you like you should feel don't think twice...He should respect you, and be serious about your relationship.. and By cheating that shows that he doesn't care at all about your relationship...
2006-10-28 18:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him. He was with you for four years and cheats on you. You deserve better than that. He lied and cheated. That would be hard to trust again. You could try counseling if you wanted to give him another chance. I know I have had cheaters and they usually do it again. I don't give them another chance anymore. I deserve more respect than that. There are men out there who do respect women.
I know women who do get back together with their men who have cheated and somehow make it work. He has to make sure you know he is trying and he has to know you are going to give him grief by asking him where he is and who he is with, because he lost the trust factor. He has to earn it back again. It doesn't come back in a day. It may take months or longer to come back if he works hard to prove to you he is true to you. You have been together for a long time for it to just be thrown out the window.
I am sorry he did that. I know how it feels. Hugs to you. I will be praying for you.
2006-10-28 18:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to throw in the towel after four years, but if you caught him cheating (and not just flirting (which is wrong too; just not as wrong)) then I would suggest leaving him. It's not like he had a one night stand then admitted it to you. You caught him red handed. Who's to say how many times this has happend without you knowing it? More importantly, who's to say how many times it'll happen without you knowing it if you should stay with him?
2006-10-28 18:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get him to explain himself first. if you dont like what he says or feel he is lying dump him. easy as that. but if you feel the relationship could be saved then go for it but be careful. your heart could fool you to think he innocent. you have been together long enough to know him. so good luck!
2006-10-28 18:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh. 4 years is hard to throw away, but who knows how many times this has happened in those years? if he doesnt respect u enough to stick by u, then hes not worth it!
2006-10-28 18:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by sweet~n~sassy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY THAT HAPPEN YOU. IT DOES HURT WHEN SOME
ONE BETRAY YOU, BUT I WOULD JUST TELL HIM THAT THIS
REALTIONSHIP IS IN TROUBLE. AFTER 4 YEARS TO DO THAT
IS NOT GOOD. AND TO LIE ABOUT IT IS EVEN WORST. IT
MAY BE TIME TO REALLY THINK ABOUT IS THIS WORTH
SAVING. IF HE LYING AND CHEATING . THEN WILL BE A
ABOUT TRUST.
2006-10-28 18:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is not worth it. Maybe if you learn to spell or at least learn to use spell check or at least give a d*** if you can spell or not you would find a better boyfriend.
2006-10-28 18:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you post this question of yours as an answer to one of my questions? just an easy way to make points. real annoying and I wonder if this is even true,your story.
2006-10-29 18:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the***, jk. talk to him about it and ask him why he did that. or see a counsler with him cause im all out
2006-10-28 18:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋