2006-10-28 18:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all how old R U? If your under the age of 18 you shouldn't be worrying about bf's. You'll have the rest of your life to worry about them. 2nd your parents are concerned for your well being and don't want to see you harmed in any way including your heart. 3rd young girls tend to get hooked up with the bad boy attitude and make big misstakes.
I know this from experience of when I was a teenager. When we are young we don't want to believe that our parents wouldn't understand some things. Granted some don't BUT there are those out there that are smart. Maybe they don't share their childhoods with their kids because of the misstakes they made. I have an aunt that is this way. We aren't aloud to talk about memories unless she started the topic of occurance.
Talk to them and ask them to explain to you why they decided this. Listen to them just as you want them to listen to you. Take everything into consideration and make your decision. But don't do it out of spite.
2006-10-28 18:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by tygernside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents do know what is best. If you two are to be together, it will happen after you graduate. If you want to make the mistake of your life, go against your parents wishes.
Being married at 14 and having 4 children by the age of 21 was bad enough but when my husband raped my daughter, that was what opened my eyes to the fact that I should have listened to my mother.
YES IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU.
2006-10-28 18:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents can somtimes over react but it also depends on what your bf's notes say. I think that if they say somthing harmfull or hurt full toward you, they have every right to protect you and not let you be with this guy! If he wrote some nasty sexual things this is somthing that you, yourself have to protect yourself from. You must be much to young to be involved sexually with a guy! Take care of you self first and dont dissobey your parent's later on you will see their point! Speaks from Experience...GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-10-28 18:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are too immature to set proper boundaries with this boy, then they have to step in & do it for you. Your parents are trying to teach you that you deserve to be respected, especially you need to respect yourself. All you want right now is a boyfriend, & you want one at ANY price, even at the price of your own self-respect. That is a very dangerous attitude for a teanage girl to take. It can lead to you getting either pregnant, or an STD. Wouldn't you agree that it would be better for you to give up your boyfriend than to have to figure out what to do with his baby growing inside of you?
You are young, & you can choose not to make a big deal out of this if you want. Just forget about this boy for now, he doesn't respect you if he writes you notes you wouldn't want your parents to read, so he doesn't deserve you right now.
Find a boy who will treat you right, that's all your parents want, is for their daughter to be with people who respect her & honour her as much as they do.
2006-10-28 18:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that at 17 you are the right age to smoke, have intercourse and bypass out and die on your usa yet they wont assist you date? they should get slightly attitude. they're stunting your emotional advance lol additionally i might get slightly bit attitute with them and ask what the hell they have been doing taking place my handbag interior the 1st place. in the event that they are going to hunch to the point of dealing with my issues they are in a position to hardly assume me to admire them or their policies. Date who you decide directly to hun, they cant legally provide up you. i'm 20 btw so i will completely understand the place you're coming from.
2016-12-08 23:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this myself, so I know what going on here. If you mean innapropriate, "dirty", suggestive notes that you didn't mind at all, well that's what happened to me! My mum found them and has been rather suspicious.... If that's the case, stick with him. If you mean bad notes such as rude, mean, nasty notes, rethink this guy.
2006-10-28 18:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by tanya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y dont u want to? if hes been writing bad notes....talk to ur parents though. tell them why u dont want to. if they still think u should, then ur probably right. wait until ur older, and dont have to do what they say!
2006-10-28 18:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by sweet~n~sassy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do what your parents want you to do. Pursue happiness, even if your parents disagree with your choices. That's your right as a human being.
2006-10-28 18:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tophy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i depend on what he said and u need to prove to them that he is not a bad guy so try and explain to them y he did it
2006-10-28 18:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by companykid101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what you call 'bad'?
2006-10-28 18:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋