There's a girl from school that I like a lot and she likes me but lately I think she's been ignoring me. She smokes pot A LOT(sometimes other drugs) and always says I should smoke, but I don't really want to. But I think that if I do then she'll start liking me more and will go out with me. Should I? I know you'll say "no" but I really want to go out with her.
2006-10-28 17:06:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really, say no to drugs. You guys are young; don't ruin your future. And stay away from her, or face the consequences of getting caught using illegal drugs.
2006-10-28 17:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why settle for less? If you don't know let me inform you that this is nothing but disasterous. Its quite obvious that she doesn't know how to be a friend, better yet anything more by stating that you should smoke. A friend is not going to give you anything that is going to hurt you or to impair you in anyway. Her decision making is already impaired whether or not she realizes it. Let me help you to realize that if someone really likes you then they will accept you as you are.
Smoking will not guarantee that this girl will like you any more than what she does. What will probably happen is that she will like you for what drugs you can buy her and anything else that she can get from you. So stay sober and learn to love yourself. There will be another girl someday that you like alot who will not be on drugs and you stand a better chance of being at peace .
2006-10-28 17:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by lovinp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid. Don't do drugs. Look around, there are girls just as cool as her that have their life together. Leave her alone. She is a loser, and you will be too if you hang out with her.
Never change who you are for someone else. She only wants to bring you down to her level and make herself feel better about what she is doing. Stay above it. Who knows maybe she will change her ways and you will be a good role model for her. But don't try to change her. We can only change ourself, not anyone else.
2006-10-28 17:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not do it. Don't go that route. It's an ugly road to go down and nothing good can come of it. It sounds like she's bad news and had got issues. I think you need to be focusing on liking a girl who doesn't abuse drugs. Steer clear of this one. Good luck...
2006-10-28 17:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny A_331 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your self esteem is that low that you would do something you think is wrong what makes you think she would go out with you after she watches you do something like this. she will see you as a follower not a leader. but do what ever u think you should.
2006-10-28 17:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"no way" do not do it. there are plenty of other girls out there.if she really cared for her self she would not do drugs..how is she going to care for anyone else??i know you like her a lot but move on.
2006-10-28 17:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by wndy_soto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices.You keep your pride,morals and values or give them up for her. You still want to go out with her?
2006-10-28 17:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your own powder stuff that LOOKS like drugs and then maybe she'll like you and then don't tell her.
i messed up my life doing drugs. just thought i would throw that in...
2006-10-28 17:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you'll say "no"
Bro you alredy know the answer.
Stick to your guns.
2006-10-28 17:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by J. D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill say "no" --- if she does not like you as you are then move on --- find someone else --- taking drugs will not "make" her like you
if she does not like you thats it --- there will be someone who you think is MUCH better and who will like you as you are
2006-10-28 17:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋