Do you care more about a girls personality or looks??!
2006-10-28 16:30:15 · 28 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gf looks
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2006-10-28 16:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Care? Check it out, here's what happens:
First, looks attract the guy's attention. Face it, you can't recognize a good personality from across the room.
But THEN, personality keeps the attention, because I don't care how hot someone is, if she's a psycho I'm not sticking with her.
So, which do I care more about? obviously personality.
Sure, if it weren't for the looks, I probably wouldn't be with her in the first place, but if the personality isn't there, every second I'm with her will be a living hell... and if the personality is there, I'll stick with her till we're both old,grey, and butt ugly. Which one lasts? The personality, not the looks.
2006-10-28 23:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's a combination. I saw a graph chart somewhere that summed it up pretty well. The line going up was increasing personality, the line going to the right was increasing appearance. The girl with tons of both would have a diagonal line going off into space, okay? So anyway, most guys have a happy medium of looks and personality required to date a person, but every guy polled stated there was a level of both looks and personality that if a girl was off the charts with one but not the other he'd still go for it. Get it, so if you're nice looking and have a good personality guys want to date you, if you maybe aren't smokin, but are off the hinges with personality (or the oppisite, you are boring as can be but are rediculously hot) guys stil want to know you.
2006-10-28 23:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A guy I knew would answer it this way:
"A guy is not being honest if he says looks are not important." But looks is not just about the magazine ideas of what good looking is. A guy can tell if a woman is self confident; that is beautiful. Once a woman has attracted a man with her self confidence, time will be the tester and that is where the personality comes in. Nothing uglyier then a complaining female!
2006-10-28 23:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I work in a factory with a bunch of men. They come in all shape, sizes, ages and backgrounds. Trust me on this one: looks. But only initially. Then it is personality. Sorry, but men, whether we agree or not, love a pretty girl. And when they see one, they aren't thinking,"She seems like a lovely, young lady." NO! They are thinking,"Wow, I'd like to hit that." Or"HHHMMM! I 'd like to get me some of that." When a girl at work is bent over, the guys like to look at her cleavage and butt. Then wonder amongst themselves about the size and color of her nipples. Her bra size. What kind of panties she has on. If she has nice lips they wonder if she gives good blow jobs. It is all disgusting but true because I hear this **** every day and I don't like it. I find it degrading. But once they get to know the girl, she is either considered alright or a ***** or a **** (behind her back).
2006-10-28 23:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by whoanelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know honestly there has to be a balance of the two. A pretty face can get you in the door but it's the personality that keeps you in business. Ultimately everyone is attracted to confidence and that is a personality trait so personality I guess.
2006-10-28 23:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Hendo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When a man first looks at a woman, he judges her by her looks. When he speaks to her, he starts to factor in her personality. And as he gets to know her, he starts to judge her by her character. I think character, looks, and personality all matter.
The problem with men is that we ignore women who we are not physically attractive to and don't get to know the person.
But if I had to rank them, i would say.
1. Character (morals, principles, and values)
2. Looks (the body and the face)
3. Personality (visual aspect of one's character; a person's likes and dislikes; attitude)
2006-10-28 23:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks at first, then personality becomes more and more important over time. If a very pretty woman turns out to have a bad personality, then she won't look as pretty, because the man will be looking at her from a new perspective.
2006-10-28 23:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks!
2006-10-28 23:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by aLawrence 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both as the old saying goes looks get you in the door and pesonality carries the conversation...or something like that. Me personally are not too conserned about looks although they are nice but I wouldn't most likely date a fat person...FAT is not 135-140pounds!
2006-10-28 23:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by A Friend 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a package deal, however personality far outweighs looks, especially in the relationship lasting any length of time.
2006-10-28 23:38:11 · answer #11 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋