{this wasnt a bad brake up tho}
2006-10-28 16:18:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hang out with your girlfriends every weekend and stay busy.
2006-10-28 16:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by BluntTruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completly, and i mean completly, normal exspecially after 2 years together to not be able to stop thinking about him. Stop and think... if you do something for 2 years, and just abrubtly stop, does it just escape your thinking? no, it seems awfully weird not to be doing it, and a lot of the times, sad. If it wasn't a bad break up its worse, because i'm guessing u still have some feelings whether romanticly or just friendship wise towards him. You need to focus on something important to you, your career, your friends, a sport, and a hobbie. Maybe start something new. Friends are huge right now, talk to them, and listen, they usually have something good to say.
2006-10-28 23:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by emcjensen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't moved on then, maybe you can get back together. Otherwise, you need to find things that occupy your mind.
Friends, work, school, whatever. Don't hook up with anyone in hopes of getting the word back to him. Not tidy.
Don't go jumping into another relationship so fast. People need to heal and do a little self check after a long term relationship ends.
Good Luck.
2006-10-28 23:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. Don't date for a while. Develop some other interests and hobbies.
You aren't over him and won't be for a while. It's very unfair to any other guy to make him compete with your memories of your ex.
If you are still friends with him stay in contact.
Time is the great healer in these situations. Don't worry. It will come. There are plenty of other men availalbe, many of them good men who will treat you well.
It's okay to be unattached for a while. (Some say it's even better than being attached.)
2006-10-28 23:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well break ups are painful even though it wasn't bad you had gotten attached to him and it may take a while to get over all that. Some things you can do is go out with your friends like a singles club or hang out with some close gurl friends but it will all work out
2006-10-28 23:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Christy Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any relationship good or bad... it's hard to move on... the old saying that time heals all wounds is true... you just need to get with your friends and let them know that you need them now more than ever... get consumed in your idle time with a good book and movies... always keeping things like this on hand when your hanging out at home alone... helps to keep him off you mind... even answering some questions here at yahoo... will help... get you to thinking anout another persons problems... it's called getting out of self... you can also go to coping.org and maybe there you can find some coping skills to get you through... hope this helped...
2006-10-28 23:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a distraction. Start dating again casually, this will slowly ween you off the man you obviously loved and cared for for 2 years. Breaking off with someone sometimes feels like someone close to you died. You need time to mourn (but dating is a great way to heal).
2006-10-28 23:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must go through the grieving process just like you would do if someone you loved dearly had died. I know it's a different situation but in either case you are deeply wounded and only time can ease your pain. Later, you may think about him but it will no longer break your heart.
2006-10-28 23:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here..my problem is im still living with him and not moving in2 my new apartment till december....its gonna b awhile b4 u stop thinking about him...especially if u love him as much as i love mine (cause i know u still love him).u gotta go out with sum really close girlfriends...have sum "u time".. go shopping, the movies..and hes's still thinking of u to blieve me he is...it will get better..but dont go out there and try to find another man to get ur mind off the 1st it wont wk...u will just spend the whole date thinking of ur ex....good luck
2006-10-28 23:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you break up?
Do a pro-con assesment of your relationship.
Decide to go back or get out permanently, but get off the fence!
2006-10-28 23:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by jejordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋