I know this girl who's boyfriend is cheating on her and do not know how to handle it. I can't tell her because I barely know her. There is also a bit of chemistry between her and I and do not want it to seem like I am just trying to break them up. I truly think she just deserves to know, this is happening often and not with the cleanest people.... (I know because a freind of mine knows the girl he slept and she told him).
2006-10-28 16:17:40 · 17 answers · asked by helpme124578 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I have to tell her somehow...Just do not know how. The none of my business goes out the window when I think of what could happen to her. As for her boyfriend I do not even know him, I met him once and he was a a**hole. As for her friends, surprisingly most seem to know, but their loyalties are to the guy.
2006-10-28 16:43:46 · update #1
mind your own business.
2006-10-28 16:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well as her friend u should either come out and tell her, hint to her or show her that he's cheating on her. Let her see it for herself, u might want to call her and ask her to meet u somewhere and talk with her about this, u can hint it at first, say things like I have a friend who;s b/f is cheating on her, ask her if u should tell this friend. Then say something like how would u handle it if someone knew UR b/f was cheating would u rather know or not?
Do something that would put it in her mind that the friend ur talking about is her, if she ask if she's the girl , then say either yes or I rather u see it for urself.
Good Luck I hope it turns out that she will not get mad at u over this, because ur only telling her because she should know he's cheating
2006-10-28 16:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw what ppl say about shell find out on her own how would u like it if ppl knew ur gf was cheating on u and they waited till u eventually found out she could have cheated 50 times before then,... ne one and everyone that is being cheated on deserves to know before ur feelings become stronger and when u find out if u find out the remorse is too great. if u scared of her thinking ur trying to break them up then u need to find a way to prove it, and if u cant tell her any ways but ur responsiblity is to inform her of the sin the ahole is comiting.
2006-10-28 16:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by runksmania1011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't wan to get involved in her business, but you do care what happens to her, and tell her to use condoms. She will ask you why, but just tell her you don't want to be that guy, but to look for the signs. She will get it, obvios hints, but still staying out of it. Or get someone else to tell her that, if its with dirties, she definatly deserves to know for her health, what she does with the info is her coice.
2006-10-28 16:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An anonymous note maybe. Since you don't know her well... she may not believe you, or she may choose to believe her boyfriend when he starts lying about it. If she finds out anonymously, she might take it upon herself to look a little more closely, and find out the absolute truth on her own.
2006-10-28 16:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been in this position before. do u kno da guy pretty good? i had a homeboy cheat and i really knew da homegurl. its just a guy thing if you kno da dude. but if u just kno da girl, tell her!!! depends on how she is and all. but tell here. in your shoes, u should just say "its like this, your boy is cheating on you and i kno certain peeps dat kno" if she doesnt believe you and gets mad at you, **** IT. u told her and when she wants to cry on you shoulders, youll be wit a female and she will realize who you are. ya meen
2006-10-28 16:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by M.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, it's not your place to tell her. She will find out eventually on her own and the best thing you can do is let her find out on her own and not say a word, then when she finds out, be there for a shoulder for her to cry on.
2006-10-28 16:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be the bigger man of the situation and let the poor girl know. Or else you will end up, letting that problem bother you for the rest of your life.
2006-10-28 16:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by ladymember 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is the best policy, even if your not the one to tell her she deserves to know.
2006-10-28 16:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by mbsparks11@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE! PLEASE! PLEASE! Get one of this gurl's friends to tell her. You can talk to one of the gurl's friends and tell her to get the word back to the girlfriend. Also this gurl deserves to know especially when her "man" is sleeping with a hoe(let's be real) It may not seem like it's any of your business but if she ends up with a disease that's on your conscience. DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO!
2006-10-28 16:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before doing or saying anything make sure you have your facts straight.
2006-10-28 16:23:09 · answer #11 · answered by nice and steady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋