said that I should try not to be so uptight about it and be patient because obe day the right girl might come to you one day. But I am 24 years old and have never had a girlfriend in my life and I get jelous of seeing other people in relationships because I have never been in one. What do you think and what should I do?
2006-10-28 16:05:53 · 11 answers · asked by kocul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're 24 and never had a grilfriend you are probably unattractive and dull. Try making lots of money, that way they'll at least sleep with you for cash.
2006-10-28 16:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by BluntTruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! Some of the best guys are "late bloomers", for lack of a better word. I find that guys who wait to have relationships, whether they wanted to wait or not, are the ones who end up with some of the sweetest and long lasting marriages. The guys who have been from one bed post to the other tend to not value their marriages so much. I would just say pray about it and be patient in waiting. Trust in God. He knows who you should be with and when you should be together. Of course, you shouldn't just sit on your hands. I would get involved in church more, your alma mater (college), and maybe you can see if you can start a singles bible study at your church. That would be a good way to round up some of the single God-fearing ladies.
2006-10-28 16:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can u tell us a little about yourself?
Are you shy? maybe that is why you have trouble getting a girl
Are you cocky? that could be a reason too.
your question is hard to answer w/o a little background info on how you handle situations when you try to talk to a girl.
A church will always tell you that. I think you have been almost paitent enough for being 24 and not having a relationship.
2006-10-28 16:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Curiosity killed the cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. Good things come to those who wait. You're better off not having a girlfriend than having made a girl pregnant in high school. Some day your princess will come, and it will be better than marrying and divorcing.
2006-10-28 16:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should change yourself JUST to get a girl friend. However, just try to meet new people more, there's bound to be a girl that would like you. Dont worry too much, things come round and work out the way they should. :)
2006-10-28 16:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could try tlkin to some girls an if u find a girl u really like go for it an dont try to rush things an they r right dont b so uptight an shell come to u dont try to push things...goodluck
2006-10-28 16:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it... you might not of have a g/f because you are trying to hard i know this guy who tried like really hard to get a g/f and then when he stop trying hard he got one .
2006-10-28 16:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by countrybitc89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to keep cool and hang around with girls and ask your friend to fix you some blinddate or so, or if you don't have anyfriends go to some dating service in the internet, just like you do here!
2006-10-28 16:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hitting on women like crazy, sooner or later one is going to bite.
2006-10-28 16:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, dude.
thats sad.
Im almost half your age and I've had three.
But emough about me.
be outgoing, and dont be a jerk.
work on your appearance,
and smell good.
girls like that the best, i think.
2006-10-28 16:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Miles B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋