my granpa died two summers ago and i still can't get over it.he smokd
2006-10-28 15:54:30 · 9 answers · asked by grouchy 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
he smoked and died 2 years ago.i have only visited him about 2/3 times in my whole life. suddenly i've really started to miss him.please try to help me.
2006-10-28 16:13:13 · update #1
well you never get over it in my oppinion you just have to learn to live with it think of happyer times yes youll get sad once in a while but thats normal its a part of life
2006-10-28 15:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by shelly_noble24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to join a help group to discuss this with others who lost a loved one? Try focusing on the good things about him for the few times you were with him. Think of something funny he said or did to help you laugh a little. Remember hes looking down on you and knows someday you'll see him again. Keep good memories in your heart. Think of him in a better place where he 's happy and not suffering. Maybe talking to your pastor at your church will help.
2006-10-29 00:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by smplylori32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting over death is one of the hardest things in life. try to do some activities you enjoy such as sports, reading a book, painting, and other relaxing hobbies. if you miss the person very much, you need to start thinking about great things about them. for example your grandpa. think positively. he passed away with smoking to teach you a lesson not to smoke and he wanted you to keep a smokefree life and live a better life. he was just showing you a road to a better life. try also remembering all the good times you guys spent together. try meditating, praying, and other things to calm you down, but dont get over upset because it can lead to stress and too much stress can lead to many situations such as depression.
2006-10-28 23:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i lost my mother 5 years ago and it was the terribleist thing i have ever had to deal with. I just kept moving with my life, got some counseling and just cryed when i needed. My sister yelled at me cause i was a big baby and that i cryed, but......I did'nt let anybody and i mean anybody tell me i couldn't cry. Wait over time it will all me better
2006-10-28 23:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Joey T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take everyday...Remembering the good times that your grandpa and you had together. Take it one day at a time. i went through the same thing last summer. But it was my grandma. i was the closes to her than the other 8 grandchildren she had. I spent time w/ friends and family tlking bout the good times. And also knowing that she was in a good place. Like w/ your grandpa. Like I said take one day at a time, remember the good times.
2006-10-28 23:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by pomsquad2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years ago, my wife and I both lost our fathers on the same day. It was our faith in God that gave us strength to deal with the grief of their losses. He is there for you too, if you would just reach out and ask him to help you (Read Psalm 46).
I know you loved and missed your grandfather, but I think he would have wanted you to have gone on with your life. Always remember how you loved him, but do you think that grieving his loss to the point to where you're not enjoying life is what he would have wanted you to do? If you really want to honor his memory, then I think he would have wanted you to always remember and love him, but to go on with your life and enjoy it. Just a thought for you kid. God's strength be yours as you deal with the grief of his loss.
2006-10-28 23:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by rhino 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grandpa's are special.
You will always think of him from time to time and miss him.
That is ok.
But do know that your Grandpa is with you...he will be over your Right shoulder whenever you need him.
And when you need him...talk to him.
2006-10-28 23:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it's hard to accept this situation .. but think about this... if you really love him wouldn't you like him to be in a better place always where he can truly rest ....
yes now he is resting in peace so you should be happy .. and remember that anytime if you needed him .. he will be always around you watching and listening to you.
2006-10-28 23:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never do
2006-10-28 23:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by rawr_0920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋