I've guess i've came to the conclusion over the past two months that i've quit my skating; Due to having heat induced hives, boot problems, and having no friends @ the ice rink. Skating is something i love to do, and i've been doing it for 8 years but it seems like i havent got anywhere for the past two years and then getting on freestyle ice and skating by yourself, in hives, well everyone else is talking to each other isnt much fun. Anyway its been really hard for me and my parents dont seem to understand. Its gotten to the point to where you mention my skating or ask whats up with it i start to cry and whenever my mom brings it up i usally cry. And today i had to go down to the ice rink for my bro's hockey game (hadnt been there in like a month) and we ran into my coach there and when she asked how my skating was and whats up with it i like had to work my a** of not to cry. The moment she said that feeling where you are going to cry just hit me.
2006-10-28 15:51:25 · 7 answers · asked by dreamscrushed 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Basicly is this a phase i'm going thro or is this going to be something thats going to get me for the rest of my life.
Skating means my life to me and i was going to base my career and family around it. Knowone really understands what i'm going thro and i really have no one to tell either, So my feelings are all stuck inside me. When i went to the ice rink today it was prob one of the hardest things i had too, i just deep down have that love for skating but with everything happening, i dont enjoy it.
2006-10-28 15:53:54 · update #1
If you put me on the ice with no one out there i can skate for hours and i'll just fall in love, and you'll never get me off the ice. I have the time of my life. But when i go on there with a big group of people who are mean, i just idk feel like i'm horrible and i guess i just get really self-conisious. So i'm not quiting b/c i hate it i really do love it deep down, idk i guess i'm quiting b/c i just can take everything anymore. how do i like deal with this, and know if i'm making the right choice?
2006-10-28 15:56:36 · update #2
"When you really have a true dream, it never does go away. You will always skate, my dear. It will always be there for you. Even when it breaks your heart. Because the beauty of a dream is more than despair can bear. It may be yours alone, but it's yours to have, and to cherish, and to dream."
2006-10-28 15:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 04:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by stufflebeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have developed some fear of skating, or else there is more to this story than you are including. Are you having personal problems with someone there, or perhaps in a relationship that has gone badly? You need to discuss this with your doctor. You may have a medical depression, which means that your hormones are out of balance, and taking the right medication for a short while might help. See your doctor and hang in there. It can work out for you.
2006-10-28 15:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by dbarnes3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let yourself open up and tell your parents, your coach and any friends you trust. It sounds like you are thinking they won't understand but I think if you tell them just like you have written here, they will understand. You are going through a trial passage in your life and hopefully it will help you to learn how to handle future problems that will always be a part of life. Don't hold it in, reach out to others.
2006-10-28 16:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Surfgirl2go 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your butt back on the ice and you will get yourself back in line
be honest with your coach, im sure he or she has heard it all before, girl you have lots of years ahead to get wound up in unhappy, so get back in the saddle and ride.
2006-10-28 16:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, that's way too long to read. shorten it and maybe i'll read it later
2006-10-28 16:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
youll be fine
2006-10-28 15:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by bangieb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋