im very lonely everyone in school says im very ugly even my family?

Question

its kind of depressing i feel worthless and have no future my daily routine is eat ,sleep ,go home

Answer 1

That is not true! Every human being is valuable. Even if no one on Earth thinks so, Jesus does.

Answer 2

Sounds like you need a bit of support. Just so you know- everyone goes through an ugly phase, it is fleeting, and even if we do not end up being in the class of the super models, I would rather be as ugly as sin than not have a good heart. Beauty fades, and what is left is the real person. Look inside of yourself. There must be an interest of yours that makes you feel good. Sports, drama, music, student body, or even something else outside of school. Volunteer work is a great way to pull you out of what you are dealing with and help you see a broder perspective of the world and humanity. i know it seems hard, but this really is such a small part of your life. A few years from now you will be out on your own and you never know how things may change. Hang in there.

Answer 3

I have known several people in my life who in photographs would be termed unattractive, yet these people were so competent at their chosen fields and so charming, that people perceived them as very attractive. It truly does largely come from within.

So, make a plan....1) learn to ignore comments, both from the family, from classmates, and yes, from within yourself. 2) make a plan to find something you are good at or can become good at...better than most other people. This may be a skill or may be depth of knowledge about a particular subject. 3) Locate another "loner" in the class and be a friend. 4) Do something nice for someone, without anyone knowing it was you at least once a day. The payoff for this is not for them, but for what it does for you internally. 5) Do your best in school. While it may not earn an A, at least you know you did your best. Make an effort to complete assignments on time and in an excellent manner.

My mom used to tell me, when I was depressed about high school, that I would have my fun in college. I thought she was just trying to cheer me up, but guess what?! She was right. Particularly if you have made the effort to be good as something, you will always give off competent and confident aura, and people will perceive you as attractive.

Best wishes.

Answer 4

Your family should not ever , ever say things to you like that. It's abuse. Emotional abuse is a real thing and it hurts more than anyone can know. Talk to a school psychologist or a social worker about this. And in the ned just realise that soon enough you'll have your education find a job and live your own life. People usually hate on people they are jelous of. You have worth just like every other human being. Don't let anyone get you down.

Answer 5

I was blessed with a bit of good looks and i went for the good looking women and found most of them to be ugly inside and dumped them. I married me a great little gal that doesnt have all those looks but shes the most beautiful woman ive ever had.

Answer 6

ok first of all trying to kill yourself solves nothin, been there
and i have the same kinda life they just dont say it directly to my face live your life regardless of what other people tell you what they think about it dont let people at school laugh at you tell them off dontlisten to parents they are only a hassle until you are 18 or have a job and dontlisten to those religious freaks that keep shoving the way of their religion down your throat just follow the path or better yet make your own path life is only as crappy as youre willing to let it get and whatever you do dont take peoples pity or charity forget everything you learned about that its a sign of weakness before you know it they will try to crawl all over you pity is for the weak and chaity is for the poor stand up for yourself dontlet people tel you what you are and can and cannot be you tell THEM thats how i learned
the bottom line is if you let people talk to you like that they will keep on doing it assert yourself people respect those who at least make an effort to defend themselves

Answer 7

I grew up with my mom telling me the same thing that I was ugly and would not amount to anything I proved her wrong I have to beautiful children i am in college and I don't look on the outside of people I look at the inner being the heart. you are a beautiful person in God's eyes

Answer 8

Well, if you consider your whole personal worth on whether others find you attractive, I feel sorry for you. You need to find what you do well and work with that.

Note, it always works out in the end. A good friend of mine was considered a nerd in school, and he is a doctor now. Life turns out well if you make it.

Answer 9

We cant always see what is hidden from us. If you are an outsider socially how can you expect others to encourage you. Remember depression, It is all about friends and family. You must look for one new friend who is not in the winners circle.

Answer 10

that's pretty sad. Stop focusing on what you aren't. What are you interested in? Movies? Books? Video Games? Pets? I'd spend my time pursuing my interests. It builds character. Unfortunately it feels like this part of your life will never end, but seriously, once you are out time flies. You can do whatever you want and find people just like you. Trust me!

Answer 11

Hey sweetie!! Other people will ruin you if you'll let them. God made us all the way HE wanted us. Each of us designed specially. Don't worry about them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. God thinks you beautiful, and you are. So ignore them, they're not very nice. We all feel really ugly sometimes, but I bet you aren't, and really, it is on the inside, no matter how dumb that sounds. lol, I hope I don't sound old, cause im in high school. but seriously, you've got jesus and me. Don't worry.