She's always so damned late. I wanted to go to the Masquerade tonight and then a party. We should have left like 2 hours ago. She always does this and it really irks me. One time we were going to go out somewhere and she was supposed to call me when she left and she fell asleep. I waited forever for her. How do I get her to stop? She didn't even stick with her job for more than a month, and now she's jobless again. I almost broke up with her, but I like her too much.
2006-10-28 15:27:27 · 15 answers · asked by Rockstar 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has nothing to do with being late, it's her form of control of her life. She probably doesn't get much say about the remainder of her life and this is the only form of control in an out of control life, whether it's emotional or otherwise. You can't get her to stop, she's comfortable when she finally has a say in her life. She definitely needs help to sort this out. You must be ready for the ups and downs of this relationship. I hope you love her enough to either go thru the changes or release her with a little advice to find out why it's so important to be in TOTAL control. Good LUCK
2006-10-28 15:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by crkristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead without her - both with intended outings, and I suggest with life itself. She'll always let you, and others, down - eventually in matters far more important than a party. She may be attractive and likeable (such people often are, if only because they are "different" and often behave as others unconsciously would like to behave). But there are plenty of fish in the sea who'll be glad to find a fellow who is reliable and capable of real affection.
2006-10-28 22:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that dont take ur love as easy as ABC,,, she should respect ur say like verse. Any way make her understand if nothing works than beat it,,,,,, to many butterflies are around n u might get the perfect 1......... All the best of luck
2006-10-28 22:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself why you like her, because it sounds like you are complaining about her an awful lot.
The fact of the matter is, you can't change people. They will only change if they want it for themselves. So you have to either accept her for how she is or move on. Good luck.
2006-10-28 22:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by So far away 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA...Sounds like my sister....Tell her 1-2 hrs in advance this way she will never be late....Example....Party at 4 pm tell her you have to be there by 2 pm....Maybe it will take 3-4 hrs in advance...Whatever works best.
2006-10-28 22:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first maybe you 2 dont mesh. and2nd if you think that shes that lazy and you dont have that good of an attitude about her . save her and you alot time and leave each other.
2006-10-28 22:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a good man if you can stay with her but tell her look you need to put your help in on this relationship so if you want me then i think you get up off your butt and start makeing it on time
2006-10-28 22:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by punk_rock_freak2011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
Any man that can explain "on time" to a woman and make her understand deserves a nobel prize.
2006-10-28 22:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, she hasn't changed, she won't, its a habit that you cannot change. If you try all you will do is make yourself even more angry because it is a lost cause.
2006-10-28 22:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by micg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go without her a few times and I will guarantee she will turn up. People treat you how you let them...wise up.
2006-10-28 22:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by dragonrider707 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋