I Have NO Friends!!!
2006-10-28 15:23:04 · 37 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
You don't need to get a boob job. There's more to beauty than the size of your boobs, if people can't see that then their losers and you don't want them for friends anyway. Just think about being the best, nicest person and friend that you can be, and you'll find friends that aren't shallow and appreciate you for your personality and friendliness.
2006-10-28 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by redletterhope 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you believe that having small breast is the reason you are friendless? If you want friends, go make some. You can become friends with other people in and out of your age bracket at church, school functions, by volunteering your time at hospitals, reading to elderly people in nursing homes, etc. Having a boob job will only change the "KIND" of attention and friendship you have. And take it from some one that regrets the job- it all too often gives you more of the negative attention than it does any good for you. If someone does not like you because you have small breast then you do not want them to be your Friend. A real friend loves you through all your faults,big,little, quirky or odd. Getting a boob job because you want more freinds is not a good reason. A boob job creates many problems far into the future. Did you know that they will need to be replaced on average every 10 years or so? Neither did I until I notice one side was loosing shape, it had a small leak. The first doc that did surgery on me, did not tell me THAT! Thats $5000-7000 every ten years for maintenence. Make sure your body and your wallet are preapred for that fact! If I were you, wait until you're out of college, by then you'll probably meet a gorgeous man who will love you just the way your are and you won't even remember this being a problem for you. Besides, have you ever seen a 75 year old with perky breast? The older you get, the less your skin will be able to hold up the weight. It is just not attractive!!
2006-10-28 15:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by SKayeMesqTX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My VERY BEST friend during the whole of school, was a girl who could have written this same question out at 15, too.
She was as slim as a boy all through high school. Never even wore a training bra--just T shirts. She was made fun of in the showers ALL THE TIME after phys-ed.
But, when she was 19 she suddenly blossomed. She grew 3 inches taller over a period of just 3 months. And every previously non-existant curve, grew voluptuous. She went from Twiggy to Sophia Loren in just 3 months! It was a revelation.
Of course, she had to change ALL of her wardrobe. And she had to learn how to ward off guys. She was suddenly so "popular" that she wasn't safe walking down the street alone.
Unfortunately, she has also had to learn how to diet for the first time in her life. She used to make me jealous with how much food she could eat without an ounce of weight gain. Now she eats salads for most meals just like me.
And as to the friend thing. You have to first BE a friend to have a friend. Just start talking to people. It doesn't have to be anything big. Compliment a classmate on her new jeans. Or ask a fellow student to help you with your math. Or join the Drama Club. There are lots of things you can do, that will help you get to know other kids, and maybe make a few friends.
2006-10-28 16:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, a boob job? You are still growing. My sister-in-law got her first boob reduction when she was 18 against her doctors advice. Two kids later, she has no boobs and an huge red ugly scar to reminder her everyday of her mistake. Getting a boob job is not a bad thing, but wait until you are finished growing or at least until you have your first child. Boobs change drastically after that. I had small ones when I was in high school, now I find them too big.
You do have friends, there just boobs. Remember, you are fifteen and it feels like the whole world is against you.
Take care.
2006-10-28 15:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Girls M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not have a boob job at 15. You are still growing and are too young to have this type of surgery. I think if you are honest with yourself, it's not a boob job you want, but people to just accept you as you are. You can't buy friends by having a boob job, these people laugh at you because they don't respect you and they won't have any more respect for you if you have a boob job. You need to find some real friends and don't try and hang around with superficial losers. HTH : )
2006-10-28 16:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have a few years left before your breasts are even fully developed. It is sad that people would judge someone so superficially and not be friends with someone. I have a hard time believing that you have no friends because you do not have an adequate sized chest. Concentrate on your good qualities and personality, and don't worry about something you cannot control right now.
BTW- A doctor will not perform breast enhancement on a 15 year old unless there was a severe medical reason.
2006-10-28 15:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by WDE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Ur fifteen only, which means ur still in your puberty stage. U will keep growing. Dun be silly. Nobody likes artificial things esp when it is on ur body. Love the way you are now.
I guess you are shutting the door behind you and it makes people hard to make friends with you instead.Dun be so conscious.Small boobs aint everything.In addtion, ur still growing up.
Go natural, puberty stage is the best stage to boost ur breasts size, after a hot bath, massage it, and drinks lotsa of tonics and Papaya milk shake regularly.
2006-10-28 23:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no friends because you don't have any boobs...
Ok you are only 15 ...so I don't think you can even get it...
legally...
Also you haven't fully grown yet....
Also you boob is small..but are you small in proportion?
But the bottom line is don't get it...
If you do have a boob job...you can't do many things
such as you can't get on a plane for a while..
can't go on a rollercoaster or any fast speed or pressure
activities....
So don't...if they are laughing at you...you laugh at them
2006-10-28 20:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by vicizav_v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what having a boob job has to do with having no friends - unless maybe you're after friends with benefits.
Either way, its your decision - way up each side though.
Get a boob job = get many over your lifetime, they need replacing every 10 years!
2006-10-28 23:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Nella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, sweetie. These are such hard years for kids. Try to endure them with as much grace and strength as possible, being sure that "this, too, shall pass!"
Changing your body won't win you true friends. The same jerks laughing at you for being small, will just laugh at you for getting surgery. They are just simply not nice people. They are shallow turds.
You are a bit young for this type of surgery anyhow, honey. Most reputable surgeons will want you to be at least 16 and more prefer 18 or older.
I hate the high school years. I have a lovely, smart 17 year old daughter who today was cruelly excluded from the dinner and home-coming dance she thought she was going to with all her girl "friends" by the maneuverings of one Alpha girl who has taken a dislike to her for some reason known only to herself. And on Monday, my daughter has to face all these girls in class, one of them is her lab partner in Physics. They just follow the lead of the mean one like sheep, they have no character to do the right thing.
I would like to give you the same advice I give her: You may be trying to be friends with the wrong people--I call them "toxic" because they are truly poisonous individuals.
You need to look around you to see the kids who are like you: nice, maybe a little shy, not the cheerleaders, not the serial "daters", not the partiers, not the emos, or the jocks, or the jerks. All around you are the kids just doing what you are supposed to do in school--study, some extra-curricular, time with parents, time volunteering in the community, some after school working at the grocery store, etc.
Many of these children feel, as you do, that they have no friends, because they are not friends with the gaggle of giggling, screeching bleach blonde cheerleaders, drill teamers, football "heroes", sex maniacs, drug taking, liars and schemers.
Take a step back and look around you. The good, true, honest, empathetic and genuinely fun kids are there, just hoping someone will notice them and want to be friends with them, too.
Love yourself the way you are. I can tell just from your question that you are worth 50 of the lying, nasty little tramps that delight in making you feel bad.
Your parents love you, your family does, and now I do, too.
Be happy, enjoy 15--I bet you are a beautiful girl, inside and outside both.
2006-10-28 15:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by desperatehw 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋