well i really love my ex and i feel the same way with my bf just a tiny bit less and i would really wanna go back out with my ex.but he doesn't think it would work but would like to give it an 8th chance at it. but i don't want my bf to suffer more than he is right now. and he would go and do somethin' stupid. hes almost what you call 'obsessed" with me. what should i do?
2006-10-28 15:01:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to sort out your feelings for both guys, what you need to do is not be involved with either of these guys until you sort your feelings out. Don't be the one to hurt the ex or the bf. You can't lead both of them on, also if you are going back to your ex for the 8th time then honey something just isn't working, you can't be with each other and you can't be without each other, bad combination, walk away from him. As for the current, if he is so obsessed with you but your feelings aren't receipricated then that's not really working either. You know there is someone out there that you will fall for just as much as they fall for you. Keep look, maybe try going at it alone for a little while that way no one gets hurt.
2006-10-28 15:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
Thats BS!
What the hell does this guy have 9 lives or something?
End it Already! And Why would you ruin a perfectly good relationship for a What if situation!
Think!
You want a relationship that hasn't work 8 times previously?
Thats Obsession!
I mean how many times do you need to taste squash before you know you like it or not?
It either tastes good or NOT!
As far as the BF- Poor thing!
Your probably driving him crazy with all of this nonsense.
Please stop it and grow up!
Your ruining everybobys life, not just yours.
Think reasonably OK.
GL
And In the process your saying you
2006-10-28 22:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go back with your ex, it'll probably not work out. It hasn't worked in the past from what you say. So, that is a losing proposition. Also, if you go back to him, you'll really hurt your bf who apparently cares a lot for you. So you lose twice over. Your ex will eventually break up with you and you'll have lost the bf. Best bet is to stay with the bf and make things better with him. Try to focus on the bf and forget about the ex. I'd say you'd be happier with the one who's proved he wants to be with you.
2006-10-28 22:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
8th chances are for when you are learning how to ride a bike.why would you want to continue to have your heart broken that's like constantly breaking the same thing over and over again at some point it is going to broken for good .if you love your bf why put him through the motions of your selfish ways .what if he did it to you how would you feel.you shouldn't mess with someones Else's emotions because you want to have your cake and eat it to.if you want to spend the rest of your life trying to get it right over and over and over and over again go back to your ex its only going to get worse each time, but if you love your bf like you say you do and want to break the (8th chance cycle) stop playing games and let that ex remain an ex . think about it would you want your bf to treat you the way you have been treating him???????
2006-10-28 22:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it love or lust? If you are giving your ex an 8th chance, that is about 6 too many in my book.
2006-10-28 22:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by phileprincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truely want to leave bf to go back to ex,, and afraid of what her will do,, break it off,, and wait awhile before you openly pursue your ex. secondly, remeber this,, there was a reason your ex, is now,,,,, your ex. before you continue,, think about it, either way,,, if your bf now is not what you want,, you should break it off
2006-10-28 22:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by joseph c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
8th chance ??
Not a chance...
Sounds like you have problems making good choices in men..
Start over again...
This time, look for someone with some maturity, stability, financial security and willingness to commit...
2006-10-28 22:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave your ex alone because if it did not work the first seven times it wont work the eighth time also don't think you can change someone because they will always be the same person
2006-10-28 22:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by SEXI LADY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the SAME thing hun!Ok so let the one you dont really love the most go..You owe him that much!
2006-10-28 22:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GIRL NOT EITHER ONE .THIER BOTH NOT HEALTHY FOR YOU. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE MY EX.HES THE FIRE IN MY HEART. BUT YOU GOTTA GO ON SOMETIMES AND TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHOS BEEN AROUND THE BLOCK A NEW LOVE,ANEW CHANGE WOULD BE GOOD FOR YOU.
2006-10-28 22:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋