OK so there is this guy i like and then there is anyother who i am dating....And i DO NOT want to break the one im datings heart!I love the other boy though((chris))and he says he loves me too and i belive him.I was looking through some old pics from when i was dating the one i really love and i saw a pic of us and i saw myself smiling...and i just thought of how happy i was!I could remember the warmth of his body..I really dont wann break my boyfriends heart but thats what its coming down to.IDK what to do..Please help me!PLEASE-cry-
2006-10-28 14:57:36 · 5 answers · asked by Abby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are in high school break it off slowly by makig him break up with you then wait a little and ask your true love out
2006-10-28 14:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by hokiesoccerfreak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Abby: There is NO way to have the one you "love" and be with the one you don't love and be happy, at the same time. You will be better off to end it with your current (now) guy. Yes; you will hurt him and he is going to be angry and cry. This is why you should not be "tied" down to one guy. You would be smart to just "play the field" and not go steady ! You will only continue to hurt guys and make them cry, as a new guy comes into your life. Guys have to be smart too and not go steady. Most of the school romances will fade away ! Soooo ... If you are smart and don't want to hurt people (guys), then, just hang out on a date with different guys. The choice is YOURS to make. Good luck to ya !!!
2006-10-28 22:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically, you both all three have to live with this decision so you need to do what makes the most people happy. You will not be happy if you are in a relationship with one man and in love with another- obviously neither will your current boyfriend. Although he may hate you at first, he will eventually realize that he is glad not be living a lie. I don't know how serious it is but if it ever lead to marraige and perhaps even kids it could even get worse- then you are stuck being unhappy for the rest of your life.
2006-10-28 22:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your heart is not in your current relationship, you owe it to him to let him go. Let him go find a girl who can love and appreciate him and do this before turning to the other guy. Do the right thing.
2006-10-28 22:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You will break your guys heart if you stay with him for that reason..If the guy you love really loves you...make him prove it....don't give up on someone to appease another..
2006-10-28 22:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by dino 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋