I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago. Finally I decided to tell her how I feel for her in a couple of weeks. Is there any tips to be more confidence and, reduce the chance of getting rejected if it's possible? When and where would be ideal? Thanks!
2006-10-28 14:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by yaoliu89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you waiting a couple of weeks? anyway, the best way to tell her is to just tell her. be direct. tell her that over the times that you have known her that you find that you and her have alot in common and this compatibility has lead to you feeling emotions more then freindship. Give her reasons why you are starting to like her. Do not mention anything physical like you are so fine or anything corny and shallow...stimulate the intellect..since you have known her a while, mention other things about her you like. For example, how she laughs, her personality etc. explain to her why you came to the conclusion of feeling the way you do about her. when you are done, ask her how she feels..do not leave her room to say nothing. She has known you long enough to know how she feels about you. Then if she says she is not interested in anything more then freindship then tell her you can accept that and you felt that she needed to know that you have established more feelings towards her...continue being her friend and do not change your ways...alot of times after a girl thinks about it a while...they start looking your way and eventually will start comming around...if she says she feels the same way then seal it with a kiss.
2006-10-28 15:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by sadealz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's so sweet I think that you have to relax you just told the girl how you feel. You didn't even ask her out yet (I'm sure) don't worry about getting rejected its no big deal now just take her out, show her a good time, and let it all fall into place don't think about oh what if she rejects me maybe she feels the same way about you. Just trust your instincts I mean asking people on here won't help they don't know her. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:-)
2006-10-28 22:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Precious S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be rejected if you are the right person. Be yourself, you don't have play somebody to look better. Confidence where is the problem if you grow up, you should have one. Personality is what she see, if you get little disappointed that's mean she was not the right girl for you.
2006-10-28 22:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u should know whether she also feels the same way abt u if the answer is yes then there is no need to find the perfect time just be natural and let nature do its work flow with the flow and u will find that it was so easy to tell her .
2006-10-28 22:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by dax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try talking to her privatly if shes with her friends she may be embarrassed to say yes (i dont know what typer of person she is sry)
make her feal loved and cared for then try asking her out
if u really impress her and show u that u care u may be able to reduce chance of rejection but no guarentees
best of luck
2006-10-28 21:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by William H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to pressure her, because you're her friend, so you have to be nice about it. she will probably feel really awkward, so tell her she can take her time deciding, and reassure her that no matter what, if it doesn't work out, you won't hate her and you'll still be friends. remember, you're her friend, so you have to be understanding. if she says no, don't take it too hard. the easier you make it for her, the easier it will be for you.
2006-10-28 22:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Becca M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring plenty of Buds and beer. You will be just fine.
2006-10-28 21:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u get rejected,,no one has ever died from it b4
2006-10-28 21:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself thats all
2006-10-28 21:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋