We fight all the time and are cruel to each other. We have a terrible history together and almost no future. But I am so lonely and miss his warm body against mine. I love it when we so get along because we have so much fun joking around and enjoying the time together. However it is so seldom. I don't want the drama the comes along with everything. Should I see him next week? I've so far spent all day at home, sleeping and on the computer. Now I'm watching Harry Potter which I absolutely love. He hasn't called me all day and I'm worried a bit about him. I wish he would call. What should I do? Should I treat myself to a happy pill? I have a stimulant medication that will allow my mind to become active and motivated.
2006-10-28 14:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you sound perfect for each othr. as long as your together stay out of the gene pool but spend as much time together as possible
2006-10-28 14:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound like a healthy relationship. Perhaps you should allow yourself some space from him so you will not be thinking about him so much. Go out with the girls and hang out at the malls and have a good time. I have a feeling that your boyfriend is not sitting around the house on the computer and watching harry potter so why don't you get out there to. Not only will this start to get under his skin wondering where you are at all the time, but it is healthy for you. Unless things change, you may need to find someone else warm to hold that you can get along better with more often then seldom..
2006-10-28 21:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by sadealz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say if you fight all the time it's time to find someone that you get along with. If he hasn't called you, call him. Is there a reason you shouldn't? Either call him or quit feeling sorry for yourself and find someone that you get along with and that will be there for you. My boyfriend lives 1200 miles away. We talk most everyday and sometimes 2 and 3 times a day. I would love to have him hold me every night, but since that's not the case I have a stuffed animal I sleep with. Sound silly? Maybe, but it's fact. Another thing I do is think about him and look forward to the times when we are able to get together and be in each other's arms. Thinking about him gives me warm feelings and always brings a smile.
2006-10-28 22:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by nice and steady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ALREADY KNOW.
You are cruel to each other, have a terrible history and you see no future. Do you think that's what love is? Why keep going on?
Take some time to yourself, you know this guy isn't the answer. Keep sticking with the wrong guy so you could completely miss the right one?
Maybe you need see a doc.
I'm bipolar too, it sounds like you aren't taking meds but you are having mood swings. Meds aren't a treat...lol...they are supposed to help balance you out.
It's not easy but it's worth it.
2006-10-28 21:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by angeltread77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop by my place. I have a large blanket under which we could cuddle. Haha!
Really!! Ditch the butt hole and find someone who has some substance as a person. People with substance stimulate mental activity without the use of medication. You are a person lacking a compatible partner and need to move on immediately. Cut him off cold turkey, don't answer any calls, don't answer the door. Maybe after some miracle awakening he will realize who you are and how to treat you. But I seriously doubt it so move on immediately!
2006-10-28 22:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men myself included want to have a depressed and crazy girlfriend who is dedicated. A girl who wants to believe in true love and become a love slave . The depressed are better lovers I think as the passions grow stronger but there is always the danger the whole affair will explode.
2006-10-28 22:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with the one you love, nothing comes close to that. But all the trouble you both have is a bad thing. I'm not trying to sound mean, but find someone who enjoys the way you feel about things, remember, love is wonderful and love doesn't hurt and love isn't lonely. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-10-28 21:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TAKE PILLS!
here's what you do:
1. DUMP HIM.
it sounds crazy, i know. you're probably thinking you need him, or at least his company. but notice what you've said :
"We fight all the time and are cruel to each other. We have a terrible history together and almost no future."
that's a dead end. instead of looking to your boyfriend, look to your friends. have a girl's night out. that's what i did when my boyfriend started treating me like crap. you desreve better than someone who abuses you like that.
2. DONT TAKE PILLS!
you could get hooked, cuz it sounds like you're depressed. after you dump him, give yourself sometime with you. remember, after a break-up is when you're most vulnerable. you dont want to get stuck with a jerk on the rebound.
3. GET ANOTHER MAN.
you like having a male companion. there are PLENTY of fish in the sea! catch one of them.
it sounds crazy, but make a list of exactly what you want in a man. just go on with life taking care of yourself and prince charming will show up. remember, you never find what your looking for, so just dont.
if you take care of you, a guy who shares your sentiments will find you.
2006-10-28 22:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Ben Dover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know those relationships! they are the only one i had for the first three relationships and it was because I didnt know how to love right and that was the kind of people i attracted so after being single for years i did alot of thinking and working on myself and then i found my next relationship and my spouse sure enough had those problems but i no longer did so i started the nurturing and openess and pure love and soon my spouse began to learn that i wasnt going to argue or break anyones heart and the total trust was born and today we are very happy after 12 years of marriage. It is all about trusting your heart to someone and taking care of theirs making them feel safe . hope some of that helps you out good luck to you
2006-10-28 22:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let Him go, Do something with your Friends or Just Yourself.
I always say I wish there was a Man in My Life, But Never is or will be, Doesn't how many happy Pills you take, He Doesn't Love You and He has Moved on with his life.
Like I said Let It GO
2006-10-28 21:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the same things I do I have the same problems with my girlfriend I like a warm body next to me. I love harry potter I have all this books and movies. Id like to meet you? where you from? your answer what should you do? Talk to him about it. ask him if he is seeing a other girl? if he is dump him.
2006-10-28 22:07:47 · answer #11 · answered by Rea g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋