2006-10-28 14:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by Sharon T 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
I'm so sorry. I know you must be hurting and missing her very much. Right now your mom is with you, and she's done suffering. You're not really empty inside, inside your heart is your mother's love. That will always be with you. Pray, talk to her, and remember all the good things she shared with you, taught you, and fun times you had together. Be happy for her that her suffering is over and now she will watch over you and guide you. Much love to you and may you soon find peace in the memory of your mother.
2006-10-28 14:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by BIZ Z 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sharon,
I am so sorry for your loss..when I read your question my heart went right out to you!
My Mom is seriously ill with inoperable liver cancer...I don't know how much time she has left.
I try to listen to everyone's advice, but in the end I feel like a scared little girl. I know it's easy to say this, but it is TRUE...you are NOT alone! Do you have friends and family in the area? Co-workers? I would start by reaching out to them. Also maybe a support group? There doesn't seem to be one in this town and so I'm trying to think of ways to help ease the pain.
But ultimately it's going to be time isn't it? I don't know if it heals all wounds but I pray it helps lessen the suffering.
I'll be thinking about you....try connecting with people on 360...it's my "escape" from the daily madness and I think also for thousands of others!!!!
2006-10-28 17:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by T'S PAGE FOR NOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, my condolences to you and your family. I'm sorry for your loss.
There's not much that will make you feel any better except time. You will always have that emptiness, but it will lessen with time. My Dad died 12 years ago this past Thursday, and it was on my mind all day - it still is, and has been in all the past years. You persevere, and remember. When you see something that reminds you of her smile. Only time will help you. Good luck, and God Bless you and your family.
2006-10-28 15:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Boof 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The American Cancer Society has a hotline 1-800-ACS-2345. They were very supportive and understanding after my mom was diagnosed with squamous-cell lung cancer Feb. 24th, 2006 (she passed away Mar. 29, 2006 of squamous-cell lung cancer, pneumonia and peripheral-arterial disease).
You are not alone, and there are people who care.
2006-10-28 14:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by amy02 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fill your heart with God's Holy word and give Him time and He will fill you with joy and satisfaction again. But be patient and let time bring healing to you. One day at a time can be very difficult
but the results will surprise you in the days ahead. Don't despair
and don't feel you are alone. Be strong in the Lord and in the power of His Might. God is by your side whether you know it or not. Reach out to Him and He will reach to you.
I don't know if you know the Lord or not but he is a very present help in time of trouble. For you see He is the Beginning and the End. He is the first and He is the last. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord if you are a Christian. Talk to Him and He will talk to you. God cares and He will help you.
He told the children of Israel to call unto me and I will answer you and show you great and Mighty things which thou knowest not. I can say He continually does just that to His people that trust in Him.
2006-10-28 14:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry about your mom. My mom died several years ago. It's really hard the first year. Honestly, it takes about ten years to fully recover from the death of your mom if you are young. Mom's are special. I suggest you keep busy, go out with friends. Don't spend any time unemployed during your period of grief. The busier you are the better you will feel. Visit your other relatives and enjoy your memories of her.
2006-10-28 14:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rockford 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it is going to take you time to feel better again but your always going to miss her and you will always have those happy memories in you heart and mind. Death is always hard. Sadness is a natural feeling. Don't try to be strong, let yourself mourn. Find someone that you can talk to and they will listen when you need them to. Don't try to get through this on your own. sorry for your loss and god bless.
2006-10-28 14:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you try to remember the good times you hadand make something to honor your mom.that's what I did when both of my grampa's died.ex. type a letter to put in her casketor give a speech about your mom,by her something nice to put in her casket.I' m sorry about your loss.Ican connect to how you feel.
I hope you get happy again.
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2006-10-28 20:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by jenna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋