okay well my boyfriend is like inlove w/ my mom hes always talking about her not me he once called her to talk to her and they talked for like and hour or 2 i was pissed!!! but unyet i still love him
i think hes way into my mom well what should i do like start liking his dad? ohh me and him havent had sex because i wouldnt let him on me? should i get him started wear something really sexi and ask him over and lay on my bed? HELP NEED ADVICE!
Nikki <33333333
2006-10-28 14:22:21 · 31 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well hunny sorry i dont know u lol well uhh if u say y i dont like u thats y because i dont know u well heres my email whosaidicantbesuperman@yahoo.com
2006-10-28 14:26:09 · update #1
hell no no 3 some idiot and im 18
2006-10-28 14:26:47 · update #2
Nikki, forget this guy completely. Find someone who wants to be with you, not your mom. He is using you to be close to her. STOP SEEING THIS JERK TODAY.
2006-10-28 14:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Mom Likes My Boyfriend
2016-11-02 00:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you should tell him to come over one day when it can be just u and him and then. Put on something really sexy and then get him all ready for it and then just stop make up something that will get him to leave the house. You have to get in all excited and in the mood and then just when u feel he is all into it just stop and watch and see if that will take the attention off of ur mom and on to u. Then if it doesn't work don't flirt with his dad or start likin his dad mess with his best friend! that is the best way to get him. Then u talk with him and all that stuff the same way he did with ur mom. Then u and him should be a happy couple after ll of this happends!
2006-10-28 14:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't showing him why he is in the relationship in the first place. You can't just lay low and hopefully he comes to you. You need to gain his attention, which it seems like you are lacking.
The best thing to do is to talk to him about his attraction to your mom, don't get pissed at him for doing so but just tell him you recognize it. He will get the picture.
2006-10-28 14:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by hasnain4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0.0 thats creepy. but don't go for sex unless your ready for some sort of commitment. talk to him about your problem and if he has an issue with it then tell him that your not interested in a guy whos theme song is "Stacy's mom", unless you are*shudder*. give him a few days to think it over then talk to him again. if hes truly interested in your mom, then...i don't know. good luck! also, don't hit on his dad! thats weird and the mom might get pissed her sons gf is hitting on her husband.
2006-10-28 14:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with him, the boy is outside of his mind. Your Mother shouldn't be letting this kind of behavior go on either. It can damage the relationship between you and her. Definately, do not start liking his dad. Do not give him sex!!! Don't waste yourself on some kid who's got terrible issues.
2006-10-28 14:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something like that happen to me once. My daughters b/f dated her, to get closer to me. I however at the time didn't know that. I would have kicked his ass! I think you should talk with your mom about this, tell her how you feel. I think you should be kicking your boyfriends a*s to the curb as well. Why be with anyone who doesn't only want YOU! Also..NEVER use sex to get what you want. It won't last!
2006-10-28 14:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Awkward situation. TALK TO HIM! or your mom first. The one you feel most comfortable with. Don't do anything stupid though... don't have sex with him if he's not going to value it as something special... Your mom, as the adult and out of respect and love for her daughter, that's you, should back away and keep away from him.
Good luck!!
2006-10-28 14:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are the two of you?? if he's seeing you i think it's wrong of him to be spending so much time talking to/about your mother...
some guys are just wrong this way i guess... i've fantasized about a girl and her mother befor... or even about just her mother... but to do what you describe is wrong...
I would suggest talking to him about it... don't make any accusations... if you do, he'll just be defensive... keep the focos on yourself... ask if there's something wrong, or whatnot...
by the way you write, i think you're fairly young, so don't fret to much, there's alwas some one else out there that'll be better for you...
2006-10-28 14:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being A.B., if your boyfriend is into your mom then you need to move on! If you decide to flirt with his dad you may end up on the business end of his >>>>>>>>
So beware, of playing that game with a grown man!!!
2006-10-28 14:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by face of revenge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..... soap oprah much?
first thing to ask urself are u sure he likes ur mother? do u really have any evidence? because if not ur ruining the relationship by not being able to trust him. he propably just likes ur mum cos she reminds him of YOU! how long have u been together? think about it... he is going out with you, he wanted to get physical with you.
on the other hand if he does like your mum, leave him.
2006-10-28 14:31:35 · answer #11 · answered by flying_tigers999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋