Ok, I am friends with this guy at work. He pinches me, puts ice down my shirt and makes sexual remarks to me all day. He knows I am gay and he knows that I think he is attractive. Yet, he says he isn't gay. But we have gone out to eat and to the movies twice. He has invited me over to his place and we have watched movies. I didn't think that straight guys would be all that comfortable spending that much alone time with a gay guy. Plus, he knows one of my ex's and throws him in my face. He teases me about my past relationship with the guy. And when my ex text messaged me some stupid texts. He told me to give him, his phone number so he could snap his neck. He had a girlfriend recently and she wasn't attractive at all. Anyhow his girlfriend broke up with him because she said work was stressing her out. He claims that had a perfect relationship and they never fought, so he didn't understand why she did it. He also called me a half an hour after the broke up. Too much doesn't add up.
2006-10-28 14:19:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows I like him. I told him that I had a crush on him about a month or two ago. I told him that I was glad that my work hired him because he was hot and it gave me something to look at. Usually straight guys would be offended. He also had blonde highlights, he wears a funky *** ring, I told him I hated it when he flirts with my female best friends, so he does it, only in front of me, he doesn't say a word to them otherwise. He owns two kittens. If my hair is getting long, he always tells me that it is time for me to get my hair cut. If I have a piece of fuzz on my face, he picks it off, When we goes out to eat he insists that he pays. He also talks about me to my co-workers, he brings me up in conversations that I was never even mentioned in. This is hard for me, because I am attracted to him and really like him. But he knows. So, I am just stuck.
2006-10-28 14:43:36 · update #1
He's at least bi. Maybe gay. Don't push him or rush him though because he's obviously afraid of coming out... people dont always react nicely. Just give him time, and be patient with him.
2006-10-28 14:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by cartmansmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he very well may be Gay, BUT he may not KNOW he is Gay, or still in denial...He is OBVIOSLY attracted to you or he wouldn't do those things to you. I play alot myself, but I would not put ice down in someones clothes that I wasn't "flirting " with. You said he knows you are Gay, and He KNOWS you are attracted to him...BUT do you "like" him? I mean is he someone you would like to actually have a relationship with if he were gay? Maybe next time you are over at his place, you should have a "chat" with him, let him know how you "feel" about him rather than just an attraction..Are you a relationship kind of person? Maybe he is scared, because everyone "thinks" he is straight? Now as far as his "girlfriend, A LOT of my male friends dated "unattractive" woman, So that doesn't really mean anything, BUT if they had a good relationship and she suddenly broke it off, she may have suspicions about his sexuality too? I say talk to him, You might just be surprised, He may really, really like you , and he is just scared? Coming out is very difficult for some people...Good Luck Hope everything works out well for you!
2006-10-28 21:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is definitely curious. I think he might be scared to say it out loud though because then that would make it true. I think the only way you are going to find out is to make a move on him. But... you have to think of the consequences first. You two work together and if you are wrong things could get ugly. Be careful and good luck.
2006-10-28 21:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not gay, you see, is a blue alien witchcrafting shemale.
Yes, i would leave the office immediately.
Blue Alien Witchcrafting Shemales are very dangerous people.
They came to the earth in the 1700s, but only few know of them.
You see, they rarely come out. This one actually got a job. He broke up with his girlfriend because the girlfriend found out he player hated on potatoes.
He is obviously studying you because you are attracted to the same sex.
He does not like you , but uses movies as an excuse to study you.
Once he finds what you are, he will study something else until he writes his novel on humans and sends it to his home planet "Obnoxious Icecream Topia"
A blue alien witchcrafting shemale can change shape, although their original form is a pile of green dog ****.
The blue alien witchcrafting shemales weakness: pound on his *** until a worm comes out of his finger. Use the worm to get into his l;alksddsdsd. A blue alien witchcrafting shemales' l;alksddsdsd is the core of them. Destroy the l;alksddsdsd and he will turn into green dog ****. Shoot the dog **** with an ak 47 and he is teh dead.
I hope my advice is useful, it may be the only good advice..
2006-10-28 21:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think he finds you attractive and has feelings for you but maybe he is confused about his sexuality maybe unsure within himself good luck to yall
2006-10-28 21:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is Gay to me
2006-10-28 21:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely gay ..It just sounds like he hasn't came to terms with it yet.
2006-10-28 21:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is, but is deeply in the closet.
2006-10-28 21:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he is but doesn't know it or doesn't want to admit it quite yet!
2006-10-28 21:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too hard to say, but if you can't tell then he probably isn't
2006-10-28 21:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋