my bf is upset about something which IS my fault. and i totally accept it, but there's nothing i can do about it. i let him down but he wont let it go. there's nothing i can do or say that makes him feel better. just that he's going to feel bad for a while and then things will be ok in the end. but it sucks right now. if i tell him i feel bad too, or bad for it, he says 'now you know how i feel'. he's gonna be like this for days, if there was something i can do i wouldn't mind so much. but it's nothing i can fix. just we are gonna talk and feel bad with each other. you know? i wanna feel good and i want him to feel good.
2006-10-28 14:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if there is anyway you guys can solve this problem right now as the longer it takes to calm down the worse every one will feel. ask him not to punish you, you know you did wrong, and are sorry, you do not need to be taught a lesson
2006-10-28 14:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what it was. I was in the same situation about a month ago. We hardly talked for 2 days. It didn't feel the same or nothin. He said that he forgives me and that he got over it but he will never forget it. If he really loves you then he'll eventually let it go.
2006-10-28 21:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by babygurl18_2005_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know your truly sorry and learned from it is most important, and i'm not telling you to be mean here but if you let him act like this then it will huant you he'll keep it up, I would and have said in the middle of the whinning say hay listen I said I was sorry and I apologized and will not do it again but i'm not going to listen to this anymore accept it or make a decision he'll probly shut up Good LUCK!
2006-10-28 21:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure , mmm look just make a romantic applogize u know u were wrong and obviosuly this matter was imp to him so a romantic big appolise a small gift with a word i love u can do wonders
2006-10-28 21:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by peter prince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he 15 years old?
2006-10-28 21:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help us answer you better if you told us what you did. Otherwise, yeah, uh I guess...
2006-10-28 21:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you said it
there is nothing you can do????
hm....
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2006-10-28 21:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋