It's weird. I dunno.... my boyfriend is loved by so, so many people. His friends love him to death! They would die without him. He's smart, a very very good son, he's handsome, and he's studying at a great university. He has a very good and bright future ahead of him... He's also an awesome muisician and he treats me like a queen. He makes me feel beautiful even when I don't think I look good. He listens to everything I say and I listen to him. We have never argued even once in our relationship because we get along so well. He has become one of my best friends and I feel so incomplete without him. I know I love him. But, since he's so "perfect" sometimes I feel like, WOW, this he's too good to be true. I'm SO SO lucky to be with him? I dunno... how can I be the lucky one to have his heart? I know there are girls that wish so much they could be with him... I trust him with my life but, what if one of them try to get with him? I get a bit jelous sometimes but I never show it. No biggie..
2006-10-28 14:04:05 · 11 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I mean, I see his flaws, I know he isn't "perfect" but with his flaws and all I think he is perfect for me :) and I don't tell him I'm jelous sometimes, and that's rarely because it won't make a difference. I know he would never cheat on me. It's just a natural feeling.
2006-10-28 14:16:50 · update #1
About the arguing. We don't argue about things. We disagree about some things but we don't yell or say mean things. We just talk them through. We are both patient people.
2006-10-28 14:19:16 · update #2
Marry his ***
2006-10-28 14:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings baby girl. All women say they want that perfect man and it sounds like you have him. But the way you're feeling just shows how insecure women can be. That's why I honestly think women want a man with some flaws so they can constantly remind him of them. You see him as perfect, but he might look at you the same way. You said he does everything for you, so that should tell you that these other girls won't matter to him. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2006-10-28 21:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never show it? You gotta show it, ur hiding the way you feel and thats never a good thing. And everyone gets jelaous sometimes. It sound like you hit the jackpot.Judging by the way u describe him, i bet hed never cheat on you. Dont worry bout other girls liking him, you gotta love that other girls wanna have him, cuz hes YOUR man, and nothing anyone can do, will change that. If u trust him. If u dont well thats a whole other issue.
2006-10-28 21:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anoukens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally deserve him!! and if really iz the "perfect boyfriend" then it wont matter how much another girl likes him b-cuz his love iz devoted to u! u shouldnt worry a/b it, he sounds completely trust worthy and ur obviously a great person to have such a great guy! give urself some slack i mean he chose u over all the rest so, thats gotta tell u something! Best of Luck!
Sunshine
2006-10-28 21:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend as much time with him as you can. But if you really love him then you trust him to not mess around with other girls. If he really love you then you have nothing to worry about. Just keep in your mind that you're his queen and no other women come higher then you. You are his baby girl, and you should trust him if he is so love/popular and he claims you, then you have nothing to worry about.
(When you said that yall never argue, i think that is kind of weird. I heard a healthy relationship have a few arguments. But that is just my opinion, and what i heard.)
2006-10-28 21:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Catch!
i hope that he has some kind of conflict in his life or he must be boring as sh*t. but. i think you are being paranoid. there's no reason to expect somethign bad will happen unless it does. so i would live in the moment. but if you get jealous, you might try talking to him about it just to see what his reaction is--maybe he doesn't realize he's doing it...?
just try to make sure you aren't subconsciously angry at him for being perfect. maybe you feel he overshadows you....? i'm not saying that's true, i'm saying it's a possibility.
2006-10-28 21:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Julia Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hold on and never let go. But on a serious note everyone fights and a couple who has never ever fought does not have a healthy relationship at all. Medically proven.
2006-10-28 21:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky! Be happy. Stop trying to find fault within him. A lot of people wish they could be in your shoes... and you're lucky!
2006-10-28 21:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by kutie217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously appreciate him so just make sure HE knows that and you'll be fine. You should be proud- he must see a lot in you too.
2006-10-28 21:07:15 · answer #9 · answered by 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP thinking he's perfect...he isn't...no one is! You trust him but what if someone else tries to get him? If he loves you it won't matter who tries to "get him" It won't happen!
2006-10-28 21:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop bragging, your a lucky girl, deal with it.
2006-10-28 21:07:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋