I would like to make some friends?

Question

I tend to stay home all the time or bury myself in work and i never have any fun. I really need to make some friends so i can enjoy life more and do things on the weekends. I am a quiet person so im not the best at this. Can anyone help with some advice.... Thanks in advance

Answer 1

aw, good for you. well, hon first you have to realize that you're worth the life that you want. and know that being your REAL self, which is NOT a shy guy- i mean yuor real down-to-earth self- is enough. no, you do not hav eto act in any way to impress anybody. people change- and so can you. as corny as this might sound- you're absolutely worth it. first is establishing who you are- your interests, your hobbies, your talents, your skills. know who you really are, and put that side of you forward. along with knwing who you are means not changing to be just like a certain group of people, not trying to base YOUR life and hwo YOU are around a certain group of friends' ways of life. the right people that you should be around will accept you for your faults as well as your good qualities because thats what friendship is about. second- PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE! dont worry about embarrassing yourself (so long as youre not doing something completely jack-assed, that just wont do). an embarrassing moment is an embarrassing moment, it passes, and noone will pay much else attention to it anyway. so put yourself out there. be social, dont be afraid to start conversations with people and get to know people. start out with simply a "hey". a smile and a greeting wins over anybody, especially the ladies. a charming personality and a sweet smile and you're gonna be in. to recap and summerize- be true to yourself, seize opportunities, and know that mistakes are gonna happen, but in the end if you let your true colours shine through you're gonna be a winner *virtuous music plays in the background* =]

Answer 2

Well you certainly won't meet anyone sitting at home.

Go out..even if its by yourself. Dinner out, Movies, Weekend Convensions regarding your hobbies, gym.

For example if you like to cycle. Look on line for a local group that like to cycle during the week. Hook up with them.

If you like to walk, sign up for cancer or aids walks.

Get involved in your neighborhood community watch.

And so on.

You'll be meet people by just getting involved.

Answer 3

change yourself.now!maybe ask for a couple of months off,and force yourself away from work.
do one thing u have never done each day.talk to a stranger,eat ice cream and laugh your heart out.
at first u r just pretending,but after a while,u will find yourself fun and energetic.
if u want help,i am here to help.
good luck
tell me how it turns out.

Answer 4

Go someplace where you can socialize, like a bar, club, show, etc.

It's easier and less awkward to get the conversation flowing when you've had a little sauce.

Also great place to meet people: laundromat.

Answer 5

You might try doing one of these online dating services. Some of them are not just for dating, but also friendship. I tried one of these and didn't work for me, but you may have more luck. I'm having the same problem. Its hard to meet people.

Answer 6

meet somebody online and talk all the time while you work and then go for a walk around the block or to the park and meet people that way.

Answer 7

Internet chat rooms. The best of all worlds.

Answer 8

start by doing things you realy like to do when you go out and look arond to see if you know anybody, and if you do ....make up an exuse to go talk to them ,be very polite,smile,and dont act nerous,maybe that will work

Answer 9

best way to make friends is be one.
volunteer , jion a group , jion a club church ladies group

Answer 10

man just live ur live
just talk 2 ppl