My man is very insecure. Last nite, we were invited to a party. He assumed that I wasnt going, and since I dont get along with one of the girls there, he didnt want me there. Tonight, were invited to a different party. I assumed that he wasnt going. Now, he's upset that I wana go. He doesnt trust me. Weve been together for 3 years and he swears that I havent done anything to prove to him that he can trust me. I have never cheated on him. I tell him everything. I don't know what I can do. I want to go with my friends but if I do... I'll end up fighting with my man about for the rest of our relationship. It will never be let go...
2006-10-28 13:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by Crazy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you can date me...i wont be jealous..contact me..
2006-10-28 13:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he ever cheated you. if he says why? tell him the story ------""Last nite, we were invited to a party. He assumed that I wasnt going, and since I dont get along with one of the girls there, he didnt want me there. Tonight, were invited to a different party. I assumed that he wasnt going. Now, he's upset that I wana go. He doesnt trust me."""
tell him that you love him so much but would not be able to bear if he cheated on you. add some spices to the story.
2006-10-28 14:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not understanding what the trust part is about. If I have it right you both were invited to two different parties and both of you assumed the other wasn't going. Why? Do you all go places together and most of all how well do you communicate?
2006-10-28 13:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by freeme529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really worth it to go? Knowing that he will be more jealous than before? You may not have a reason for him to be a jealous man but he does have an insecurity and it will get worse if you go. I don't think this is good for either of you to live this way. Is there anyway to work through this so you both have your freedom?
2006-10-28 13:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy can do more damage to a relationship then anything else,,other then cheating.And hun,,,unless you have hurt him in the past with another guy,,,then maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship,,and check to see if he is the one cheating on you.In some cases men/and woman will accuse their partner of cheating,,only to find out,, that the one accuseing,, is in fact the one who is cheating.Be careful in how you find out,,,because if he is cheating and accuseing you of it to hide his unfaithfulness,,,he may get very upset as to getting caught.
Good luck sweety.
2006-10-28 13:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have to prove to him that he can trust you. if he doesn't trust you, it should be because you did something untrustwothy, not because you didn't prove to him that he could trust you. i honestly don't know what to tell you but i wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who needs be to prove that he can trust me.
2006-10-28 13:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Julia Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no trust then there is really no relationship. go any way-he can come or he can stay home and deal with his own little insecurity's.
2006-10-28 13:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to get on the same page!
2006-10-28 13:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋