My bf told me he loved me. I think its too early since we just started going out. But i have known him for 2 years. I really like him but dont exactly love him. What do i do? And how do i know he is telling me the truth and not just trying to move fast with me?
2006-10-28 13:32:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel, and that you prefer to go slow. Not rush things, enjoy what you have.
2006-10-28 13:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may truly love you since you both have known each other for a long time. If he isn't trying to move fast with you than chances are that he really does. If this is not how you feel its best to be up front with him and not lead him on. I had to learn this the hard way. Just tell him that your feelings for him are really strong but you aren't sure if its love. At this point he might feel a little embarrassed but let him know how much you do care about him and how much you value your relationship with him. That's all you can really say. If he shows at all that he is mad at you or he just doesn't get it then you need to maybe take a little break to slow things down. Chances are that he will understand. When you do realize that you do love him you need to tell him because he may not say it again for fear of rejection. Let him know how you are feeling every step of the way. You should feel lucky since most guys take forever to say it. Mine did!!!
2006-10-28 13:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow a guy saying that I LOVE YOU
1) lie trying to move fast with you
2) he really means it and he is!
Well love.. what is love? Does it matter how long you have to be with that person before u can say love. Love is not an easy thing. But I believe if your bf wants to move fast with you , he wouldnt be there for 2 years and say it. He wouild have done it at the very beginning. Well 2 years? wow thats very long term. Usually being in love term wants to develop sumthing like tri to know each other more. Understand each other more and have a FUTURE TOGETHER.
Love is all based on feelings if he felt ready to say it then he wuld do it again. he is just proving words and action showing his love. If you don't feel u can have a future with him and your feeling for him is kind of not the same then u should have a nice talk out with him. Good luck,,,
2006-10-28 13:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by ceci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I mean you said you known him for 2 years and do you think he is that sorta guy to lie like that to a girl just to get what he want? Yet he really might love you. Just because you guys just started going out doesn't mean too much. I mean he probably has loved you for quite some time yet he never has came out and told you. But if you don't feel the same way yet, then just tell him, " I don't want to tell you I love you unless I really mean it, and my feelings for you ain't that strong yet". But maybe in the future there is a possibility for you to feel that way.
Hope Everything Works Out The Way You Want It!!!!!
2006-10-28 13:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by poppin_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I went out with my hubby I had just meet him the weekend before and for just a short time. So our first date was like a blind date only I got to see what he looked like before. Anyway, that first night I knew I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. One week later he asked me to marry him and I did. We have been together now for over 18 years now. If you don't love him then take it slow and tell him that you don't know how you feel about him yet. And what ever you do don't sleep with him. If he truly loves you he can wait for sex until much later (like after marriage). Good luck!
2006-10-28 13:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by lovedietdp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be totally honest with him. Explain to him what you just said about really liking him but not exactly loving him yet. Ask him to slow down a little if it is really freaking you out. Your two year history is a good thing too. He may really love you. If he gets offensive and mad, then he probably doesn't really love you.
2006-10-28 13:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebound? they simply broke up? It takes a on the same time as for ppl to be sure the borderline between platonic love and romantic love while they have broken up. even nevertheless a individual says no longer something will take place does no longer mean that they does no longer choose something to take place if presented with the prospect. For one, understanding he's clearly up-front, immediately-forward and truthful with you presently, my suggestion is to maintain the traces of verbal substitute open, no longer harassing the boy yet additionally no longer being afraid to convey real undertaking and ask mandatory questions you have. In a teenager's existence, 3 months is an prolonged time. that's an prolonged time to be on the telephone once you should be doing homework and an prolonged time to be putting interior the park once you have a activity or better half and young ones responsibilities to attend to after college. that's an prolonged time to take your self off the industry of single childrens. yet, that's fairly no longer long in any respect, and nevertheless it ought to take a on the same time as to recover from it, they won't have had a great commencing place of affection in that little bit of time...i'm beneficial it became extra fascination, infatuation, obsession, fleeting emotions linked with the unbalanced hormones, or maybe lust. i do no longer be responsive to how ol y'all are yet that's what it appears that evidently like and so I merely inspire you to have real relationships, of substance, taking it sluggish and warding off actual family members as much as a danger!
2016-12-08 23:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time guys are affraid of comitment....so this was probally a big step for him, so he probally is telling the truth. just explain that you feel like this is moving to fast, and you dont know how you feel yet. thats better than lying and saying you love him too....he will be hurt, but he'll hopefully understand....whatever you end up saying, just make sure you say it with niceness and gentleness.
2006-10-28 13:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then ask him does he really love you.
and then tell him that ya'll is moving 2 fast, and that you wanna slow things down a bit.
2006-10-28 13:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him don't take this personally i really like you but i think things are moving alittle too fast for me can we just slow down alittle
2006-10-28 13:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋