situation: girl(me) and guy(mark) in french class. never see him otherwise, except studyhall 1ce a week. hes jewish, im christian. hes popular(er), im not. hes friends w/lots of girls, i have 1 or 2 guy friends. hes hot, im not so much. apparently, we're both shy. should i wait for him to make the first move, or should i do it? i'm not sure if he likes me or not, too. any comments would appreceiated.
also, i'm a hi-schl freshman, he is 2.
2006-10-28 13:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats unequally yolked mean?
2006-10-28 13:36:13 · update #1
Go for it girl! Life is to short! ;) Talk to him be friends with him and let him want you and run after you....
Good luck!
p.s
You can start off with something so simple as "i didnt really understand this.... you think you could help me with that" ?
see how easy ;)
2006-10-28 13:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a chance that he might like you to but also he might not even know your alive. I would go for it if I were you because look at it this way: If you don't ask him out then you might not ever get a chance again, and even if he said no thats about the same as never asking him.(except that you get hurt) I think its worth a shot! Good luck! :)
2006-10-28 20:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by creekgirl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
N'attend pas pour faire les premier pas!
Go ahead make the first move. i'm an average looking guy and I wish i'd have asked more girls out in highschool. If he turns you down you'll feel really bad for a while but trust me you'l get over it and then move on to your next conquest.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-28 20:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to just strike up a casual conversation with him. I mean you both are shy so instead of you waiting for him to come around and talk just dive right in there and see what's up!!
2006-10-28 20:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by JenniB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get inside info. See if he like you. If he does, then wait, if he truly like you he will make a move. if not, you making a move has a fork in the road. He might make the second move or he might reject you. It's a choice only you can make.
2006-10-28 20:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jeru_Salem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's popular, you should make the first move. If you see him in study hall, maybe you could ask him if he needs any help.
2006-10-28 20:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say make a move, flirting first would be best, but you also don't want him to be taken by one of his friends who are girls, so get one it, Monday!
2006-10-28 20:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been through the same thing and thers two things you can do:
1. tottally jump into it and ask him out.
or
2.get to know him so your not total strangers and you'll really know if he's boyfriend material.
both hard to do but they work. goodluck! btw, sorry about the name but my brother put that and i can't figure out how to change it.
2006-10-28 20:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just start out by being his friend and then take it from there that should work or if your in school pass him a note that could work too! good luck
2006-10-28 20:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a girl just has to take the lead. A little tongue down his throut should do it.
2006-10-28 20:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋