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Scenario: Daughter's bf has disassociative disorder; I babysit the two boys ages under five years while they work and for no pay. If I get or ever got paid, little amount times long interval; goes back to kids. He displayed manic period, abuse toward me! Inside and outside, duration about 30 minutes. I refuse to be around him. He is threatening terrorism, unlawful restraint, and me doing hostage by not comming to fence and giving him kids. My husband does it; he mentioned if he was not around to do/ the results would be the above..I want to get a PFA (verbal and emotional abuse). I would never hurt the kids. Manic episodes are getting closer together. Then he complains that people do not want around him; his actions are moronic but displays periods of intelligence when on a high. I am disgusted with whole picture. Pros and Cons please...If he does above will police even question me? How does an individual handle maniacs?

2006-10-28 13:24:44 · 2 answers · asked by Patches6 5 in Health Mental Health

2 answers

Your question has alot of turns that are very hard to follow.
It seems like you are asking how to handle a person with mental illness. If a person is really out of control call the police and explain how you think the person having some mental illness. Unless you are a doctor, you can't know what illness is going on.
I wouldn't say first one to call the police wins, I would say if a person is out of control it's better to call the police before someone gets hurt. Use wisdom, you know what out of control is. By society standards, I am one of the maniacs.
Mania is just as damaging as depression and equally incapacitate a person from making sound decisions.

2006-10-28 14:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by angeltread77 2 · 1 0

You may LOVE the man, BUT if he has ever threatened U or Kids, U should get a restraining order from police and either U & kids go or Have him taken away!

I have had friends in about same situation! They file a Restraining Order to get him out and away, yet she lets him came back! In that case it would be AGAINST HER for not abiding the law. If you want to stay - COPE, as hard as that may be, I think BEST 4 U to Find some one who cares enough 4 U that you would'nt be in current situation...

May the LORD guide your decision and help!!!

2006-10-31 05:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by ***BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!*** 4 · 0 0

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