Theres this girl that I really really like, and she's very special to me. The thing is, she considers us just friends, but she calls me her night in shining armour. I carry her books, I smile at her, I do tons of stuff, but I can't tell if she likes me or will ever like me. I asked her just plain out if she did, and she said yes, but as in a really good friend. I asked her if there was a way I could change, and she said she would not change me for the world. Please, please help me. I'm a lovesick puppy and I don't think I can get over her right now.
2006-10-28 13:11:33 · 6 answers · asked by Jay S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But she said she only liked me as a friend?? This really confuses me. I'm new to the whole dating thing as it is, but when I see her I melt. I don't want to scare her off from being my friend, if I can't have her as a girlfriend. Like I said, when I see her, I melt to the ground in a puddle
2006-10-28 13:21:01 · update #1
ok this is what i think, keep in mind that yes i'm an adult but i too am realitvly new to the dating stuff! however i have advised my teenaged neices and nephews quite well so they say. i think that you should just sit down with her and tell her how you feel about her and tell her that if she dosen't feel the same way that its ok you will understand it and that the 2 of you can still be friends if nothing else. and after you tell her ask her how she truly feels about you for real and then ask her if she would like to go out with you on a date and not just as friends. take a chance and see what she says. if she she simpley says that she only likes you as a friend and nothing more then try to move on get past your love feelings for her and stay her friend but don't make her uncomfortable about it by bringing it up agian after she tells you how she feels about how you feel if she says she only wants to be friends. i hope this advice will help you and good luck. by the way dude you sound like a romantic at heart and you should never try to change yourself for a girl! and don't be afraid to just be you!
2006-10-28 19:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes u trust me take it from a girl she likes u. Ta night and shinin armor thing is neva a friend thing she likes u. Ask her out and don't be afraid if u do u'll spend ta rest of ur life wonderin wat could have been.
2006-10-28 20:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her flat out, you like her as more then a friend and you want to know if there is any chance to hook up between the two of you.
2006-10-28 20:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by AdviceGuy399 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are always working on their own agenda. You can never make a girl like you, because they are always asking for one thing and expecting another. They will show you signs that they like you, and then they blow you off. And they say that Guys are jerks.
2006-10-28 20:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by runningtuck 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk time for your self and then try to talk to her
2006-10-28 20:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by daisynfamily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a lover note, make her feel what u feel
2006-10-28 20:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by krush-lover2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋