Advice wanted for my teen daughters. My husband told me that all men are scum but if they compliment you and tell you that you are beautiful... so beautiful that they want to be in you. Have ANYTHING with the percursor to a relationship? AND If they say no, do any of you then they would have 'shot themselves in the foot' for a relationship as being prudish? I know the 'cow and free milk' concept. I just want your takes on it so it's not just what *I* say.
2006-10-28 13:11:33 · 5 answers · asked by Valeria 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are answering as if the male is also a teen. Does that also apply to YOU? the 'mature' man?
2006-10-28 13:41:04 · update #1
Just because a guy wants sex, that doesnt mean it's all he wants.
Most guys dont want to date a girl if she's going to be a tease, but that doesnt mean they arent looking for someone to love.
Too many people like your husband propagate ideas like that.
2006-10-28 13:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by brian-upstairs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to explain to him what you just explained to us. Communication is going to be key with this, and maybe removing the sex element from time to time, or expecting more romance is something you need to enforce now, that will give you any red flags if he starts backing away from that element. Guy's can easily get caught up in sexual relationships, and think they are in love with you just because of that. So I would try to stabilize things, and try to control yourself too so you can be taken more seriously, just don't act like an easy toy. What you do now will dictate what the relationship will be like in the future, or what he will expect, so be careful at your choices and decide what you want your relationship to be based off of. Most women are one way at first, then flip your world around later because now they want things this way and that, but they liked you so much they didn't say anything and just did everything your way to make you happy.
2016-05-22 04:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teen boys don't even understand a relationship, the ones that push sex are not considering the girl and are not looking for a relationship, they push sex because they want sex.
2006-10-28 13:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by daniel a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer to your question is NO.
2006-10-28 13:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, they are just horney!
2006-10-28 13:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋