I am in 7'th grade and i have this huge crush on a guy I dont know what to do im hopelesssly in love!
2006-10-28 13:10:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, ive been there and well heres my advice. go up to him and introduce urself or better yet have one of ur friends(that already noes him) talk to the guy and go up and start talking to ur friend. then just kinda introduce urslef and keep on talking w/ them both. each day just talk to him a little more and find out his interests. dont worry a/b looking stupid or saying something idiotic b-cuz if he makes fun of u or anything then hes not worth ur time...i mean wud u wanna be in a relationship w/ a guy who makes fun of u or says ur stupid?! well if u dont see him that much then try writing him and hope for the best lol best of luck
Sunshine
2006-10-28 13:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let anyone try to tell you that you are too young... my husband and i have known each other our entire lives (yes, since he was born) and we dated in 9th grade. we were told we had to date other people b/c you can't fall in love that young without experiencing other things first. okay, well after my miscarriage with someone else, and a horrible marriage and divorce, and him losing 2 babies of his own and one failed relation after another, he came to tell me years later that he loved me and we ARE married and we have a baby boy. so i wanted to say first, that love does happen at any age b/c i know there will be people telling you that you aren't in love and they don't even know what you are feeling.
okay, well, i always took his hat... if he wears a hat, take it and wear it.. if he tries to get it back, hide it in your clothes so he can't get it. when he gives up, put it back on. somehow they start to get the feeling you like them when you do this.
i used to write notes... friendly at first, then talk about what you like, but mostly ask about him. then let it get into conversations outside the classroom and tell him how cute he is when he smiles.
if he doesn't ask you out by this time, make sure he likes you! ask him out yourself! (no notes, or friends! yourself!)
2006-10-28 20:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by innocentkitty214 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have a huge crush, but that's all it is....trust me. It will soon pass. You are too young to be in love (in my opinion). You probably really like him because he doesn't pay you any attention. As soon as he did, you probably wouldn't feel the same. I'm way way older than you, but I remember my crushes and thought I'd never get over it. You are too young to date, but maybe you can ask him to the school dance? Do I sound like an old fogie??
2006-10-28 20:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First get someone to introduce you, then go from there. Be yourself when you meet him and ask him open ended questions about himself that he cannot answer yes or no.
2006-10-28 20:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol make friends with him!! ask him to hang out after school, or during lunch or something, everything will come a lot more smoothly that way! good luck
2006-10-28 20:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to get his attention or have a friend tell him , give him a note .
2006-10-28 20:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by jeff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh it depends do you wanna avoid him or try to bump into him?
2006-10-28 20:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by r. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say talk to him and dont be shy about it
2006-10-28 20:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by allie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heh...i had that problem to....just stay in his life...be there when he needs someone ....soon youll grow on him....works alot
2006-10-28 20:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by explodeum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so wats your question?
2006-10-28 20:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by *t-a-y-a-* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋