Normally I wouldn’t be asking these EZ questions on here. But you have do understand that this girl is really special and I can’t screw this up! So here’s the facts we are in the same grade and we are pretty much the same age but we don’t go to the same school. I only see her at church. And I don’t get to talk to that much but I want to know how to get to know her better resulting in me asking her out. Thanks -Griffin
2006-10-28 13:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by Griffin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Griffin... I am about to give you the greatest advice you will ever get in regards to asking women out.
you ask them. period.
reach down ... see if you have a pair.. walk up and say "listen.. How about you and I go out this saturday?"
no lines.. no gimicks.. 9.9 times out of 10 I get the date.
its all about CONFIDENCE. girls... women.. LOVE confident men. (not cocky mind you.. confident.)
make sure you SMILE when you walk up.
period. i know it sounds simple. and I know how hard it is. but just do it. trust me.
and listen.. if you get rejected.. so freakin what? find another girl and ASK HER. it WILL work.
2006-10-28 13:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by MerryMortician 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to say hi to her and then you take it from there. Don't appear "jumpy" or anything. Just be cool and laid back. You need to be subtle about this. Talk to her and depending on how well that goes, you can ask for her phone number. If she gives it to you then you just do your thing. Try to find out what kind of person she is before you start making any moves. Hope i helped. Good Luck!
2006-10-28 20:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you go to the same church, perhaps get involved in some church events that she is involved with as well, and this may help you get closer to her and build your confidence in asking her out. If that's not an option find out what she is involved in at school and get involved too. If she sees that you are interested in the same things she is, or at least willing to learn then she may notice you and perhaps even ask you out. If you want something bad enough you'll go out and get it.
2006-10-28 20:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by tlcgirl2go 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Anyway, before you jump right on wanting to ask her out and all, you need to talk to her more and make her feel secure and happy when you talk with her. Also try getting her phone number if you like her that much and only get to see her at church.
2006-10-28 20:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by hotrodpiper2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act cool.Don' start sweating or babbling. Act like you really comfortable with her.Start talking about something you guys both have interest in. Ask her for her phone number so you guys can talk when you don't see each other . The rest will just happen easily.
2006-10-28 20:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by ●※Sёιεηα＿↑ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said, get to know her better. Just start talking to her and find out more about her. When you feel confident about being around her as a good friend ask her if you two would like to do anything together.
of course your talking to someone with no experience.....
BUT GOOD LUCK!!!=P
2006-10-28 20:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u since u go to different schools, you should ask her to your school dance. if u don't want to be so forward, say something like... hey "" all my guy friends have dates to this dance my school is having and i don't , so they r giving me a hard time. i don't really like neone at school and don;t no who to ask. i figured ur prob. free on fri and was wondering if you would go.
i know she may get the wrong message at 1st, but tell her that you had a really good time at the dance and want to do it again soon.
ps- i just got through this, GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 20:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by madmaddie_511 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all.. u should be doing ur homeworks now.. not askin this EZ questions!!..
2nd of all.. whats the matter with u?.. its just a date.. its not like u wanna ask her to marry u.. its a date!! frow up or go to school!
2006-10-28 20:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by heba! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with her phone number silly!!
2006-10-28 20:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something cute act kind of shy and ask her to the movies of something
2006-10-28 20:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋