i have been having an online relationship. the guy i've been seeing was supposed to come a couple of times and then at the last minute said he couldn't make it. he'd break down in tears on the phone, i talk to his mum, his brother, his friends and they all talk as though we are an item. he told them that he wants us to get married. and now he wants to talk about coming over again, and about our future again. he is confusing me. i mean if he wasn't bothered why push for it, and why tell all his family.
2006-10-28 12:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him. You odviously don't see him often, and you probably haven't ever seen him. You don't know who he is, what he is doing, for all you know he could be a sexual predator. Go with it if you want, but realize those things and if you get hurt, don't say you wern't warned.
2006-10-28 13:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Pray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP.
First of all, you've never met this guy in person, you've never met his family or friends. Are you sure he and they are legitimate? How long have you been in a "relationship" with this guy? I think you need to pull back and look at this objectively.
1. How can you consider marrying someone you've never seen?
2. If he were serious, wouldn't you have done more than talk on the phone?
3. If you are confused, what does that tell you about your "relationship?"
For get that he's told his family about you and is talking about the future again. YOU HAVE NOT MET HIM.
I'm speaking from a little experience. I understand how intense on line "relationships" can be. I know you have nothing else to go by other than what you feel from him when you chat, email or speak. But, at the very least, you should have a face to face with him. Honestly, at this point it think you should chalk this up as a lesson learned and move on. I doubt his sincerity or has serious emotional issues that you don't need to be part of.
2006-10-28 20:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know what is going on before you make any moves
If the guy really want to marry you then he shouldn't confuse you
2006-10-28 20:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by ●※Sёιεηα＿↑ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you never seen this guy?
but you talk to him alot on the phone and to his parents?
And now he wants you to get married?
That is a tough situation...
I advise you to hold off on the marriage until you can have some "tangible dates" and make sure you both really have chemistry together. Love is confusing, but we all must learn to overcome obstacles.
2006-10-28 20:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ARE U SURE THAT U UNDERSTAND HIM? I MEAN SOUND LIKE THE GUY HAS SOME ISSUES THAT NEED TO BE SEEN ABOUT. YOU ALSO NEED TO LET HIS FAMILY KNOW THAT U DON'T KNOW IF U AND HIM IS A ITEM. YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT ON-LINE DATING CAN BE MORE OF A HEADACHE.
2006-10-28 20:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by SweetAngel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm Confussed about the question
2006-10-28 20:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u but he probly isnt aloud to meet u. im guessing ur under 18? because his family dosnt acctually know if ur a how ever old girl or some phyco lady.
2006-10-28 20:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by bonna 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds a little strange to me. If you do continue to see him I would be very cause. If it was me I would find someone else. Good luck!
2006-10-28 20:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by lovedietdp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
isn't this weird today i found out my boyfriend has been having a long distance relationship with some one
2006-10-28 20:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur confusing the hell out of me...hmmm u should go, just say no, give it one more chance...pick one...
2006-10-28 20:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kibs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋