my friend is a slut. she always flirt with lots of guys. she been telling me how hot my bf is. lately, she been calling him, hugging him and just playing around with him in a flirty way. My bf also calls her and stuff. they seems pretty close. what do i do?
2006-10-28 12:43:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know how you feel because that happened to me but the girl was kind of my ex-friend before this started happening. what i would do is talk to your boyfriend before you talk to her. and maybe just ask him if something's going on and even if something isn't, if he could be more conscious of not giving that impression of his relationship with your friend. then maybe talk to your friend too so that she doesn't get mad at your boyfriend for the change in his behavior. because it's possible that your friend will ask your boyfriend what's up and he'll say "my girlfriend doesn't want me to act like that around you anymore" and then she'll get the idea that you are "controlling" of him, which you're not, really, you just are unsure of their intentions. hope i helped!
2006-10-28 12:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Julia Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to let your friend as well as your boyfriend know how you feel about whatever is going on between them. If she is really your friend and if this guy is really interested in you then, they'll both understand and stop whatever they are doing. Please note that they could very well be "just" fiends as well as they could like each other somewhat. Even with this knowledge, there is no need to jump to conclusions. Talk to the both of them and hear what they have to say about whats happening. After you've done that, you can make your next move. Good Luck!
2006-10-28 19:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pretty face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you all? Why are they calling each other? Trust your instincts. If you think they're messing around behind your back, then confront them. The one who admits it is the one who you keep in your life, but I'd never truly trust either of them again.
2006-10-28 19:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by cynthia t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur "friend" to back it up - Now! And tell ur man to pull his head in or walk away from both of them and surround your self with people that love and respect you!
2006-10-28 19:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by bundybitch77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your having to ask yourself this question then she prolly is not a friend. if i were you i would tell her how you feel. and tell her to cut it out and if she dosent then find a new friend! good luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 19:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Griffin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be friends with people who are *****s
Your boyfriend seems to like people who are ****s.
Maybe he's an **** too.
Don't have boyfriends who are *****s.
2006-10-28 19:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who is a true friend and find a guy who is true to you.
2006-10-28 19:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave both of them alone because neither one of them cares about you
2006-10-28 19:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to back to f*** off
2006-10-28 19:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u are mad at her.
2006-10-28 19:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by krush-lover2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋