OKAY!! My older brother came up to me today, asking for advice. It’s very important matter. There is this (huge, scary) guy who really really hate my brother (my brother hate him too). He is bossy and always picks on people to make fun of them, fight them or beat them up. Apparently, he is a trouble-maker. Everybody is afraid of him. Now, he would take my brother's things, shut him up, scare him, threats that he would beat him up after school and make my brother do things for him ( like serving him). I could tell my brother is soo scared. He came up to me for advice because he knows I am the only one he trust in the family. But I don't know what to do either and i don't want to let him down!! Please help. Oh and also going to the principle isn't such a good idea because he would stop for awhile but he would start again (and hate him even more) please if you read this, leave and advice. my brother is in 12 grade and so is this guy (but he is older because he failed last year)
2006-10-28 12:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
plz get serious!
2006-10-28 12:32:35 · update #1
he doesn't wanna tell the police because he doesn't want the problem to get bigger. what could be aways to deal with the problem in a mature,quite way?!!
2006-10-28 12:44:55 · update #2
think about this : if he tell the principle, the principle will stop the boy. but would the priniple be there to stop him after school? i don't think so!
2006-10-28 12:46:35 · update #3
Just look at it this way,, your brother will graduate and the bully will still be there right?? You brother needs to stop the crap now so this bully can get sent to an alternative school and away from next years crop of students.. If this bully is picking on a bunch of kids then all of them need to band together and tell the principal!
If your brother does not speak up that bully could really harm someone bad down the line.. Does your brother want that on his conscious?? Just remember every bully has a soft spot,, is this bully acting up because he is evil or is it better to push people away and not get close because he is going to just get left behind.. Getting to the heart of the matter could find a better solution,, maybe this kid just needs people to help him succeed and graduate?? Have you looked at it that way???
2006-10-28 14:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your brothers sake. Your principle is the best one to talk to but obviously he isn't competent enough, or doesn't think it is important enough for him to intercede. This is what I want you to do. Go to Goggle and search for a news story of a boy in "Weston school in Wisconsin" who took a couple of guns to school to make them listen to him. He had a problem with some tormenting kids too. The principle was shot and killed by this kid. Rumor has it that the kid requested the principle intervene and instead the principle put him on some bizarre in house suspension. Print this page out and YOU take it to his principle and ask him how far must a person go before someone listens to him? Make sure before you talk to him that they know this is not a threat. Something like this can really whack out the school staff. I know alot more than you may here in the papers because I live less than 10 miles from the shooting.
2006-10-28 12:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's got a problem. I know you want to help him but he has to deal with it himself. This one isn't going to be an easy fix.
This bully needs to learn to respect your brother so he will leave him alone. The only one who can make that happen is your brother. This kid is probably only going to continue to bully him until your brother steps up and stands his ground.
If he goes to the principal it will probably only make it worse. It's sad that there are kids around who enjoy making everyone's life so miserable.
I feel for you because I think a lot of us have been there. It's terrible to be scared and it's almost as hard for your family to watch.
It isn't going to be easy, I'll pray for him. Best of luck.
2006-10-28 15:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to go to the school guidance councilor. Not your brother, you and a group of others that have brothers and sisters being treated this way by him. Trust me when a group confronts management about this, he will be watched closely are put in a separate area of the school. Have your brother hang with a crowd of people until he realizes his reign of horror is over.
2006-10-28 14:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your brother's going through, I'm in the tenth grade and during my ninth grade year, I had this twelfth grader stalk me around everyday, and he even raped me after school the day before Christmas break. I asked my sister what to do and she told me what I'm going to tell you. Your brother should go to the police and get a restraining order. He needs to know how to stand up for himself. Now that I read about brother, we're in the same place, but not as what happened to me last year and he's going through this year. Just tell him that a reliable resource told him to stand up for himself.
2006-10-28 12:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, get the teachers or something to help, its called bullying, and these assholes either need their asses kicked or someone to take care of them, to bad your school doesnt work like one of mine, they actually pay you to report bullying lol, but seriously, get someone to help, even if this asshole calls him a wuss or something, especially when this prick is probably bigger and maybe tougher than your brother. Anyways, tell him to get help from a teacher or he should hang out with lots of others, and you dont want to know the final straw which has been happening a lot of schools lately, anyways, good luck
2006-10-28 12:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your brother should not show that he is scared. the bully loves that. i would kick him between the legs and when he goes down sock him in the face. dint let your brother give in to the bully no matter what. cuz he will regret for the rest of his life.
2006-10-28 16:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by claratiz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes that bad and your brother is scared then he should go talk to the principle and the cops about it and mabey they could help him. but he needs to do somthing soon befor he gets hurt.
2006-10-28 12:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by jesse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say your brother needs to show this dude up and fight him show the bully that he ain't afraid. even though your brother might be scared tell him he needs to think does he want to be bullied for rest of the year or does he wanna have fun. if its the second choice fight the bully.
2006-10-28 12:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is protective over you cuase if you hang around with his sister alot then he probaly loves/likes you as a little sister and its not your fault cause it wasnt your idea to have sex its acualtly christians fault and you should talk to tyler about it and see how he feels about you
2016-05-22 04:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋