my gf is having another guy who likes her call several times a day. and yet she pretends to love me, but she seems to be at ease telling me that another who is interested in her call her all the time , and she seems to like the guy..and eventhough she knows the intention of guy , she lets him call her ...Is it normal ? how should I react on that ...?
2006-10-28 12:18:59 · 13 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well tell me how its making you feel? You're jealous right? That is the point of it! She is trying to get your attention because she feels that she is not getting enough for you. Here are the signs:
guy is calling her and she is not stopping it
she is TELLING you about it
She is at EASE with telling you about it.
She is showing signs of liking him
This starts out as an act, but if you don't react soon enough, it's going to be real. Girls will do this sometimes when they feel they aren't getting enough attention, and why shouldn't they try to move on if they aren't satisfied?
So what can you do about this? Give her what she wants!!!!! She is giving you every right, right now to intervene and tell her that she needs to stop talking to this guy. She wants you to be a man, to stand up to her and to protect her. This is not meant to attack you, but what you are being right now is a wuss. You are pretty much watching her have an affair in front of you and you're not doing anything about it. Girls like to feel protected and wanted. Now if you do this anytime she talks to a guy, then you are overreacting and it gets boring.
You don't have much time to act. Eventually she is going to get tired of walking over you, waiting for you to get up and stop her from doing it. You need to talk to your gf TONIGHT and show her you're angry about her doing this and that it needs to stop now.
Read the signs, she's putting them right in front of your face.
2006-10-28 12:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I would say that this young lady is trying to make you jealous. She wants to know that you care for her. If you trust her not to be trying to dump you (you would be able to tell by her behaviuor towards you being very "off") then I would just say that the other guy has good taste and be extra loving towards her, paying compliments, buying her gifts,etc. A gift douesn't have to be diamonds - just a pretty clip for her hair, a scarf, pair of lace topped stockings, some flowers, a card with a nice romantic message on it, anything, really.
2006-10-28 12:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it man, but she's just waiting for a moment of strength to kick you to the curb.
Harsh, I know, but at least you've got my warning.
So now you can brace for impact or a preemptive strike. I love women, don't get me wrong, but they've been getting away with this kind of crap forever; stomping on a guy, but keeping him around as an anchor.
STOP BEING AN ANCHOR!
You may not have her love, but you'll definitely have her respect and the respect of everyone you both know.
bravery kiddo',
- Cheers.
2006-10-28 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by editor_blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can only say to be more suspicious if she seems to be doing some things, if anything does happen, it is all up to your heart to forgive her or not, and that depends also if she gives a dam, not a fun situation really, actually a friend of mine had this problem too, she did right in front of him, but as long as she hasnt been more or less "ditching" you or not wanting to hang out with you, then i dont see a problem as bad
2006-10-28 12:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the 3 billion men on earth can uderstand them, so join the club. What you do here is, you get a backbone and tell her she stops taking those calls or you are done with her. And mean it.
2006-10-28 12:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you guys still in high school?
.. First, no that type of behavior is not normal unless she's an attention whore and just likes guys after her which in that case i dont think she'd be someone you'd want to be with. and if according to you she seems to be into the guy that means shes not into you... so do yourself a favor and just end it
2006-10-28 12:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by L P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn the tables and I bet those calls stop now. Tell her a girl is calling you several times a day.
2006-10-28 12:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guy what his intentions are?
2006-10-28 12:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesn't want to go out anymore but doesn't know how to tell you, you are going to have to ask her straight out how she feels about you and the other guy
2006-10-28 12:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Cindy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda seems like shes using him as a "safety".
she is just flattered to have a guy want her when she already has someone else.
KINDA shady
2006-10-28 12:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by maggi r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋