Yesterday at my high school we had a pep rally. My girlfriend and me are both 17. My girlfriend is on our school dance team. Durning the pep rally she was with the dance team. a song came on and she was dancing all over this guy. I was feeling really jealous at the time. Is it normal for me to be jealous or not? What do you think
2006-10-28 12:05:35 · 11 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has never cheated on me.
2006-10-28 12:07:32 · update #1
Sweetie, It's ok to feel this way. It's very normal to feel jealous like this. I would have felt the same way. Actually any other guy would have felt the same way also if they saw their girlfriend dancing with another guy. I'm very sure it was harmless, but if it's bothering you tell your girlfriend that it bothered you by seeing her dance with another guy. Maybe the next time she will make sure not to do something like this.
2006-10-28 12:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you, then let her know. Don't hold anything in, because sooner or later you may explode. Its kind of normal to be a little jealous, but maybe you should have gone and danced with her, and then she would not have been dancing on the other guy.
2006-10-28 19:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by xup04_dime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is normal to feel jealous but it is not normal to be overly jealous!!! I know I would have been jealous if my bf and some girl was dancing all over each other. I would honestly talk to her about it because there has to be something going on!!!! Dont just jump to conculsions at first hear her side of it then go talk to him man to man not all childish either threating to beat his *** and stuff just figure out whats going on!!!!
2006-10-28 19:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by mommy of 3 baby boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were there to witness it, she was immaturely making you jealous. Yah, be jealous, of course you shouldve gone to her while she was doing that and stopped her.
I hope you said something to her already!!!
If she responds poorly, then she's too immature for a committed relationship and you'll either continue to deal with such things with her or you dont have to and move on! Good luck.
2006-10-28 19:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be jealous. Why don't you just go and ask her why she was dancing all over the guy...
2006-10-28 19:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very normal for you to be jealous
when you stop being jealous of any thing she does with someone of the opposite sex
you should then definitely be worried
2006-10-28 19:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy,at this age some girls are really immature. they are trying to make you jealous. if so, then tell (or show) her that you are jealous, that way, she'll be happy, and you'll be happy. I don't think she really likes that guy. it's okay~
2006-10-28 19:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by The Girl~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal to be jealous, but don't think too much about it. If you really have problem with it, talk to her.
2006-10-28 19:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Norah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaly i dont think its that bad unless it gets more than tht such as kissing and stuff like tht give her space its not bad to flirt..
2006-10-28 19:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by DOOEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal, did you talk to her about how it made you feel? start there.
2006-10-28 19:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋