2006-10-28 12:03:53 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
way too young to be in a serious relationship
2006-10-28 12:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am 15, and even though when I was 13 I thought it was okay, now I know that even I am too young. I have never even been in a relationship. Just think about it. You are thirteen. Lets say the average marriage age is 25. You have 12 years until you would most likely get married. You have a while ahead of you before you get married when you will be in a few relationships. If you get in a serious relationship now, just think: this person and more that you date will most likely not be your future spouse. And, you don't want to go through too many heart brakes. Also, starting serious relationships when you're 13 could lead to many regrets. Just make wise decisions and think smart. Don't do anything that your peers pressure you to do that are bad. Make smart decisions. This is your choice. I am not telling you how to run your teen years, but I know how things are, because I am in my teen years and I know what I am talking about. I processed these things through my mind in my free time. I know, I need to get a life. Trust me about this, though....
2006-10-28 12:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's been said by everyone else (well almost everyone who's answered this), but just to add my voice - yes, you are definitely way too young to be getting into a serious relationship. You will change so much by the time you are 18, even, that many of the tastes/preferences you have now will be things you can't stand then. Throw a romantic interest into the mix, and you're just dooming yourself to disappointment and regret. Enjoy your youth and your innocence. Don't be fooled by infatuation - it's love you want, and the real stuff won't come along until you're old enough to handle it. Now is not the time. Have fun - stay away from the heavy stuff - it will come soon enough!
2006-10-28 12:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are never too young to experience true love. But you are too young to find the "love of your life". I wouldnt get involved in a serious relationship at 13. Love is good but it isnt worth all the drama that comes along with it. Hang out with him and be good friends. Make a friendship built on love and if something works out in the future.. then it was meant to be. But dont rush into anything! Have fun and enjoy being young and suceed academically.
2006-10-28 12:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is no such thing as "serious relationships" at your age. you wont understand a thing that would be going on, and with every "relationship" comes sex, so thats a deffinate NO!
if you (and all the other 13 year olds out there) think that you actualy feel love, thats not it. what you're really feeling is infatuation which is temporary and short lived, so try not to get the two emotions confused. You are too young to experiance love, but infatuation can come at any age. and its not a serious feeling.
2006-10-28 12:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are very young to be so seriously in love. You live longer if you wait a bit longer for sex, which is why 16-18 is the legal age in most countries. Love would mean that your guy/gal would be prepared to wait 3-5 years and be faithful to you. If you wait to have your kids and spend more time building bling you also live longer. Learning is more important than the opposite sex right now. Be 21st century about it. You'll know what to do. And if they are like any more than 15 you should tell them to wait a while, and if they are more than like 17, then they should be told how old you are straight away. And if they are older than 17, they should find someone their own age.
2006-10-28 12:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can
but yes you are too young.
You should be focused on better things like school.
Besides if you start this young chances are you will have a bad experience and end up with a broken heart
because boys in their teens know nothing about love
they think with the other head right now.
2006-10-28 12:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not too young to experience love, but a serious relationship at your age no. there are different kinds of love go to school learn lovers will come after.
2006-10-28 12:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by jenna l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it rear that a 13 year old falls in love and grows up and marries that person.my advice is to give yourself time you to young to think about a serious relationship,your at that crazy age where you to young for this and to old for that,these feeling are very normal,we have all been there.enjoy life don't be in such a rush to grow up enjoy your youth while you can to many kids today are growing up to fast and are sorry later on in life because they missed so much
2006-10-28 12:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are 13 it's not even time for any relationship let alone a serious one! if you are 13 live like 13 and not 31! you don't even know what's life all about let alone relationship cause if you know you won't be asking!
2006-10-28 15:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly have a serious relationship at that age. At that age you still are trying to figure out who you are, relationships a re complicated. Be friends with guys. Go out in group dates if you must, but no dating at 13. You have the rest of your life to worry about boys, enjoy what you have now.
2006-10-28 12:06:16 · answer #11 · answered by Norah 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋