she spends most of her tim crying and she told me that when she can't cry anymore she starts cutting herself,,,, i REALLY nead advise
because she is a really nice person and i want to help her.........
thanks
2006-10-28 12:01:29 · 7 answers · asked by hvc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Speak with a psycologist. See if you can get her to go in. School counselor, or whatever you can find will do. She might fight it for awhile, but in the years to come, she'll probably thank you.
2006-10-28 12:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really needs to see a mental health counselor, whether from school or from a local clinic. A place where she can have complete privacy, without notification of her parents until they find out what has happened to her to create this self destructive behavior. In many cases of girls who cut themselves and are depressed, there is a high incidence of being sexually abused at home, usually by a family member or a friend of the family. That is why the importance of a place for her to be counseled that will respect her need for confidentiality.
Be supportive, but tell her you really don't like her hurting herself. Tell her your concerns for her and most of all, listen with a whole heart. She certainly has suicidal tendencies, so it is extremely important that she get help ASAP.
Best Wishes and Good Luck.
2006-10-28 19:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Animaholic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can help her by letting her see that she needs help. Talk to a mental health ad visor, or a school counselor, someone that you can trust. I know cutters, and if one time that she cuts too deep...
2006-10-28 19:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cut themself need professional help. It is very serious.
2006-10-28 19:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE DOESN'T NEED YOUR HELP...NO OFFENSE BUT SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP.
TELL HER YOU CARE ABOUT HER AND YOU WANT HER TO SEE SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP HER. OFFER TO GO WITH HER!
2006-10-28 19:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by vfstardust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek help
2006-10-28 19:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by 1112313213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her committed.
2006-10-28 19:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋