Guys and Gurls! what are some conversation starters you suggest?

Question

theres a guy i like at school. we're bot very shy (especially him) ive tried talking to him, but the farthest ive gotten is saying hi...and thats it. i dont know what else to say. i think he likes me, b/c he stares at me and then shyly looks away when i look at him. i like him too, and want to get to knw him more. what to say?

Answer 1

Well you could always start out a conversation with a question like: what kind of classes does he take or if he like sports then what's his favorite team? but i mean don't try to be someone your not because then your not being honest with yourself as well as the guy u like...so ask questions that you would be comfortable answering...and ask questions on topics that you find interesting...because like I said before don't be someone you're not...OH and you could always invite him to the movies with a group of your friends and his friends that's always fun because then at least your not pressuring yourself into an uncomfortable situation because you've got your friends there...

base questions off of:
~school
~favortie colors, movies, sports, etc.
~places in your city
~etc.

but don't ask more then 2 questions because then it makes u look like your desperate.

well hope my answer helps,

bye

Answer 2

Hi

Answer 3

if u like this guy and he likes and he's shy to talk to u and he only thing u did is say hi that's good. but u most make your first move usally the guys always makes there first move. but u make thi one first if u see him in the hall way again you go up to him wen there are nobody around. and ask him his name and u tell him urs and u says i notice u bin looking on me smiling and i look and smile back. and asked him witch grade are u in or how old are u sooo u can started a conversation. once u start a conversation the both of u wouldn't be nerverous anymore. and if he's passing your class to go to his class asked if he can walk with u sooo u can get to know him and soo do him. then u can tell him that u like him and ask him if he likes u but dont say too quick. and say it before someone else do ok.by

Answer 4

Have you seen the new movie last night?

What did you do this weekend?

I know a secret about you........

Where's is your girlfriend?

Where are all your friends?

It's a nice day today for doing something fun, wanna join?

Answer 5

Did you have the X at lunch today? It was delicious!

I like those shoes, where did you get them?

Can you figure out this math problem?

I have a geography test, do you want to study together after school?

Answer 6

if you are really sure, he also likes u....

I going to get a dress for my (whoever's birthday)wana come along with me?

Hey... I (smile sweetly & innocently) left my keys at home and my family are out. Care to company me for lunch/coffee/tea/shopping trip/dinner?

Are you from (just mention any of the school you have attended or just any school that comes to your mind) I find you very familiar! If he says no~~~ then say oops! hee hee sorry... you really look that (just mention any name!)
If he says Yes~~~ just say something like no wonder i find you familiar! are you from (any of the class)... then start to introduce yourself!

Answer 7

Comment on something he's wearing, like his shirt. He'll blush and deny its any good, and you can reinforce how attractive it is. Ask him where he bought it, ask if he shops there often. After that, you're on your own.

Answer 8

I personally enjoy asking them what they like...

Such as:
Music
Sports
Food
movies
etc.

it's very intersting when you see what they say or how they react...
try it!!

Answer 9

*sigh*

"Will you ask me to the dance on Friday?" or something of the like...

It's ingenious, really, because you're asking him to ask you out. He gets instant acceptance from you, knowing that' you'll say yes, and you didn't break the cosmic law that says girls can't ask boys out on dates.

Cheers -

Answer 10

Well if your in the same classes I suggest saying something like "Hey _____! Man, that ________ test was brutal! How'd you do?" That will get him talking. Good luck.