I like my bf, but there is somebody else that i've loved for so long. Yesterday at my friends house, he told me that he's loved me for the past two years we've known eachother. He told me that i was beautiful and that he couldn't get me out of his head. My bf never tells me anything like that, and he seems to be more interested in other girls. Should i leave him for the guy I've longed for??
2006-10-28 11:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say leave him since you've loved him for a very long time... he now loves you... this is no coincidence... it was meant to try out...
Good Luck!!! :)
2006-10-28 11:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to think of excuses as to why you shouldn't stay with your current bf. If you want to be with this other guy then be real with yourself and you bf and make that decision. Life is too short to play games. If you are in love with this other guy and he makes you feel a certain way then what are you waiting for?
2006-10-28 11:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer..you know what u really want. Dont deny yourself happieness because you feel like you owe this "bf" of yours. Do what will make you happy. Besides it sounds like you should be letting this bf go if he is interested in other girls. Dont hold on to something that isnt there....ecspecially if this other guy means this much to you. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-28 11:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by nikki nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always long for the other boy if you never see how it would work out. You are young and should experience several relationships before committing yourself to the first boy that says he's in love with you. Spend some time with the other boy and find out if he's all that you've built him up to be in your mind.
2006-10-28 11:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by suzyq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, do what your heart tells you to do. If you let this get away you may be sorry all of your life. BUT if it just an infatuation thing then I would think long and hard before hurting your bf
2006-10-28 11:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes-first come to Jesus salvation so you can respect yourself and not be still what i was-a person nor respecting marriage as you said you are a free thing for him who buys a cow when they get free milk-and now you got a bad reputation too-so get real please -david in his amazing grace that saved a wretch like me-your worth a diamond ring :D in amazing grace
2006-10-29 07:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-10-28 11:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart...do you love your boyfriend, you didnt say that you did. You said you love this other guy,so follow your heart.
2006-10-28 11:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you really want, if you can see that being with your boyfriend seems to be senseless then go for the other guy...
2006-10-28 11:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is what you want to do then yes!
2006-10-28 11:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋