Hello, Im in the military and am currently deployed to the desert. I have been seeing a girl for a few months before I left. I took this girls virginity and sex is so amazing with her. We have been talking almost every day and We like each other. I think I like her alot ( I have moved alot lately and havn't had an Actual girlfriend in a year or 2.) I like her alot, but im not sure If i love her or if its the amazing and constant sex. Or if I just like her and the sex is a plus. I am so worried that she will cheat on me while im gone. She doens't seem to be that type of girl, I just got cheated on by my last girl so I have slight trust issues. Anyway usually we say stuff like Miss you babe, and such. However, today she Text messaged me "luv ya" while I was still asleep? What should i do? tell her it back to try and make sure she beleives I like her so she don't dump me. PS she asked the other day If i respected her or just wanted her for the sex. I explained I love spending time withher
2006-10-28 11:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by morfusaf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To clear up something. YEs I love her company I enjoy spending time with her, sex, sleeping(nonsex) together) watchign movies everything. Here is a second problem
I plan on moving to japan or korea Soon( I already let her know that if i move or she moves we will have to break up) so we will most likely break up in a year or so no matter what. I won't marry anyone If i havn't been with them for atleast 2-3 years. Just something I choose to be my goal. .. what to do? I want to keep her for when i get back becuase I miss having somone there for me, Do you think its just because IM lonely that I feel this way.
2006-10-28 11:36:54 · update #1
do you enjoy her company? do you know her personally? do you feel like you connect with her on an etheral plane when you have sex that you have never had with anyone else? can you picture this woman having your children? Do you compare her to your mother? if you answered the last question then you definetely love her lol good luck.
2006-10-28 11:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by sweetneesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be seriously real with this girl and not drag her into a lie just because the sex is amazing
you may be amazed at her response -- lie to her and you have a clingy woman who expects what you aren't willing to give and in turn will irritate the hell out of you anyway
as for leaving and the military etc. let her know you will be moving a lot and don't want to committ to a long term relationship but absolutely love the time you have with her and would like to see where it leads
i think if your totally honest you just might like the response but if she goes nuts then consider yourself luck for having gotten rid of drama early
2006-10-28 12:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you're doing. You don't know if you love her or not, so don't lie to her and tell her you do, it will just get her hopes up. You can say "I care about you" if that makes you feel better, just be clear and honest. If it's meant to be then you'll be together when you get back. Relationships take time to develop and grow into what they're going to be. You can't create a relationship over text messages.
And... know that you've got people here in the U.S. who care about you and your safety. Thanks for what you're doing.
2006-10-28 11:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by coffeytalk.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just text back, "luv ya too..." or "I am fond of you babe..." Keep it simple also I doubt that she will cheat on you while you are gone...It really sounds as though you have something real...
2006-10-28 11:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sure that you love her, don't lie to her and say that you do.
2006-10-28 11:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by 1rxrech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww.... yes, if you feel it, say it
2006-10-28 11:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋