my friend wanted to get with me and i told her i dont want to but then she said if u dont want to i will sleep with this guy in the club i was supposed to be watching over her i said to her please dont go with him i dont want to sleep with u but dont go with him u dont even know him, but i let her go anyways should i feel bad for not protecting her
2006-10-28 11:09:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is called blackmail. she did it to herself. is she bi-polar?
2006-10-28 11:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have tried harder to prevent her going off with a stranger. Doesnt mean youre a bad guy that you didnt. Telling the other guy that she's with you or saying something to like yeah I want to be with you too and wisked her out of the club asap!! Then deposit her at her home and tell her to behave properly next time or you or someone wont be there next time.
Well, you didnt do that, so, what was the outcome? I hope she's ok. Give her a call.
Good luck with that.
2006-10-28 11:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you said you didn't want to go out with her, if she's a good friend she should have respected that. But the fact that she said she was gonna sleep with a guy she doesn't even know, means that you were way right not to date her, and it's her bad decision, not yours. Don't waste your time worrying about it, you're not the one who was sleeping with someone you don't know.
2006-10-28 11:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She evidently is a big girl. If she makes the choice to sleep with someone that she doesn't even know that is her mistake, not yours. It sounds as if she is trying to make a jealous threat to you but don't fall for it.
2006-10-28 11:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mentioned that you were supposed to be watching over her... why?? it doesn't make much sence... she's not family, because she wants to be with you...
if it were me in your position, i would say, no, i'm not going to be with you (that is if i didn't want to), but i'm going to tell whoever asked me to watch over you what happened, and why it happened... I would acualy tell, but i would say i would to her... if she still wants to go have sex with some guy, that's her buisness... But saying that your going to tell who ever, will probably diswade her from making such a mistake...
Was there drinking at this club you two were at?
2006-10-28 11:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not your responsibility to protect her, and she was probably just saying that to trick you into getting with her. It sounds like game playing to me. Just forget about it.
2006-10-28 11:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No She's the one that said that she would sleep with him.
2006-10-28 11:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't, you can only say so much. It's not like you could've forced her to go with you. It's unfair to you that dhe would even pull something like that on you.
2006-10-28 11:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by DrmRboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes over 18 den u aint responisble 4 her...but its her decisions so let her make her own decisions
2006-10-28 11:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer because you cant let your mates go around shaggin people she doesnt know u should look out for her even if its not your responsibility she will probably think that you dont like her cause you let her go shag some other lad
me x
2006-10-28 11:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kate Lvz Dan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldn't. You tried. She made her own choice to leave with some guy she didn't know.
2006-10-28 11:12:21 · answer #11 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋