2006-10-28 10:58:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys in a relationship who look at other girls are not dogs or pigs, they are human. It is completely natural for guys to check out other girls. If this is a problem for you, I suggest that you give up on men all together. Deal with it.
There is no point in punishing a guy for something that he can't help wanting to do anyway.
In fact you can turn this behaviour around to your advantage. The next time your walking down the sidewalk with your beau and a blond busty Barbie walks by point her out to your guy. Say, "Hey, check her out. She's really hot. Don't you think that (top/skirt/etc.) is sexy?"
This gives your guy an excuse to do what he deep down wants to do anyway. He'll appreciate you for it. Try it out.
2006-10-28 11:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a man I think I can answer pretty well. As far as flirting, guys who do that when they already have a girlfriend are truly pigs. But as for looking at a girls body, it's not something we can really help no matter if we have a girlfriend or wife. Our eyes are drawn without a conscience effort to the female form. We appreciate beauty, we wish for things that we don't have even if we are happy with who we are with. I can't help but admire a beautiful girl I pass by in the mall even if I am with my wife, I just make sure she doesn't see me looking. It's not that I would leave my wife even if the girl came up and talked to me. I just like looking.
2006-10-28 11:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to look. If anyone tries to deny a man or woman of looking at the opposite sex, there are serious jealousy issues that need to be dealt with. As for flirting, it's totally harmless. I flirt with a lot of people, male and female. The only time that it's a problem is when it goes beyond flirting, in which case that guy or girl isn't worth your time anyway.
2006-10-28 11:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by robtheman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its because men are visual creatures...thats it. It doesnt mean that they are lusting after you or that they want an affair, it doesnt mean that they want to say anything to you or that they are dogs even...the best men, the ones that would never cheat on their wives or girlfriends will look at a female that is appealing to them. Only because they like things and females that look good...take it as a compliment unless he opens his mouth and makes a fool of himself.
2006-10-28 11:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of them are pigs... Very rarely can you ever find a guy that actually likes you for you. They just want to look, sometimes they don't even want to touch. Them:our bodies = Us:Time Magazine
2006-10-28 11:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nichole 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like YOU don't check out men? Just LOOKING is human but you try to be subtle about it. The flirting while your with your girlfriend or wife is just RUDE unless it's someone you both want.......
Vin
2006-10-28 11:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
not exactly sure but it hapens alot you rarley find a guy that can look you in the eye while he is talking to u most of the will stare at you everywhere else though
2006-10-28 11:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by B.E.A.U.tiful! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your clothes are revealing. If I am correct then that is what you want. Men stare when we share the view with them.
2006-10-28 11:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by CGS 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men like sex, or sexual inuendos, the idea of a women promotes his fantasies, which most guys like.
2006-10-28 11:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not blind and even if they have girlfriends this doesn't mean that they are going to be together for ever... besides,if this is just looking,then I think it is not so bad...
2006-10-28 11:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by kamqx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋