but i love him to death, i could never let him go...
i mean sexually he doesn't satisfy me and it causes me to remember my ex who did satisfy me i dont want to remember my ex but how can i make our sexaul relationship better?
2006-10-28 10:56:07 · 14 answers · asked by trapped 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-28 10:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by rectal itch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sexual satisfaction is SO important. I know because I gave up on my marriage after YEARS of being totally unsatisfied. Once you are with someone who DOES satisfy you, you can't be without it. Lots of ppl go their whole lives unsatisfied really, boy they don't know what they are missing do they??? I'm with a man now who TOTALLY satisfies me, but who can't commit to ONLY me. I asked about this too, maybe u can read my question and help eachother. Good luck!! Oh and I HIGHLY recommend the book "Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman" wow what a great book!!!! Answered all my Qs about sex and satisfaction, and how to GET it!
2006-10-28 18:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by ILuvThe80s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to do this is to show or tell him using sex appeal. If his hands in the wrong spot, move his hand and give him a little smile or moan when he finds the right spot. If you wanna be on top, take control. If you want him to go faster, smack his butt, etc etc. It's all in the way you present it. Make it sexy.... He can change, and also I know this sounds wierd but know your own body, so that you can give him adequate info. and learn to FULLY relax it takes time, but will signifacntly improve your satisfaction
2006-10-28 18:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just not physically attracted to him anymore--it happens (even though you may love him in every other way). Could also be that you make love the same way each time -- try different positions and/or things like oil, dildos, etc. to enhance your experience.
2006-10-28 18:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should never have sex with your boyfriend and have your ex on your mind.keep it simple by just telling him how you feel and what your needs are and if he's a rookie the best instructor right now is you because if you don't teach him someone else will.
2006-10-28 18:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forced foreplay. Toys. Viagra.
Sorry to be ribald, but I think you take the initiative and should pass by your local distributor of adult-oriented products.
He'll be grateful; you'll be grateful; the local adult-oriented economy will flourish; and best of all you'll have saved your relationship.
Have fun!
2006-10-28 18:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by editor_blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him what you like and what you want. He may have no clue when he starts to do it right then tell him he is doing good. He will eventually get it hopefully
2006-10-28 17:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude sometimes guys are just trying things out.
Maybe he is getting his head straight.
Or he might have found a stud.
2006-10-28 18:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you like and what feels good .
2006-10-28 17:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. tell him what you like and don't like
2006-10-28 17:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋