My boyfriend has been realy grumpy lately and i've been bending over backwards trying to cheer him up but with little success. This evening my sister came round to my parents and my boyfriend spent the entire evening making her laugh and teasing her (he is 34 and she is 25). As a consequence, I feel really piss*d off because he does not do this with me! Am I just jealous or is there more to this than meets the eye? How would you feel?
2006-10-28 10:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by Squiddly Diddly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is normal - for him to do this and for you to feel piss*d off. your boyfriend feels so comfortable with you that he feels he doesn't have to try tooo hard and he can just relax and be himself -bad moods and all, whereas with your sister he is trying to prove that he is/will be a good addition to the family. if it really annoys you that much then have a quiet word with both off them. if your sister is guilty of stealing your boyfriends then have more than a quiet word. hope all works out well for you.
2006-10-28 11:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he has been so obvious about it, it's likely that he is insecure about how you feel about him and trying to be all funny and flirty with your sister to get your attention.
It's if they meet up away from you, you need worry.
play hard to get for a while, whilst being mysterious and happy.
That will drive him mad and he may start treating you better.
if not, kick him off the couch so to speak!
2006-10-28 11:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by brainlady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They could just be good friends you know, maybe you should speak to your sister, ask her how she feels about him. Better losing a boyfriend than a sister...
2006-10-28 11:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by joburg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would feel the same especially since you've bent over backwards trying to please him talk to him tell him how you feel if things don't change end it you would be better of with someone that will make you laugh and tease you
good luck
2006-10-28 11:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be so pi**ed off, especially when he's being miserable as sin with you, dont let him see that your jealous play him at his own game but dont make it so obvious, otherwise dont bother, cos all he'll do is laugh at you, girl u know what to do glam yaself up hun, just for yourself and enjoy!
2006-10-28 11:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by diamonds 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
give hem the Boot,its good for you,and your Sister,he has no respect for you,Karl
2006-10-28 11:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by karl s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he fancies your sister!! Tell him how you feel and see if you can sort this mess out before it goes any further.
2006-10-28 10:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your just not feeling the love.
you need 2 tell him how you feel
and dont blame your
sister she is most problerly unaware.
2006-10-28 11:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by kaza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very angry...you have to confront them..something could be going on.
2006-10-28 12:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start of an end!!
2006-10-28 11:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋