I want him to wear a lilac vest and tie
2006-10-28 10:51:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
let a man retain his last shred of dignity. if he is old enough to marry you he should be old enough to dress himself.
2006-10-28 10:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by sdh0407 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I tried for pink, but lost!
How about having the groomsmen wear the lilac vets and tie? Then, your hubby could wear a white vest and tie. He'll be more noticeable as the groom and he can also keep his masculinity.
2006-10-28 21:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by usmcwife722 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Choose someone else! If you are not willing to respect his strong feelings against something now, then you are headed for divorce court.
I think that, depending how you hook it up, lilac would be acceptable for a male to wear. However, I'm not your man, and your man ways no. Either A. Choose another color, 2. Find another fiance, or D. Go nude.
Seriously, it may seem a small thing to you, but talk to him and find out why he objects. Respect his views. This will help him respect yours.
2006-10-28 17:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just ask him, or find a vest and tie that has lilac flecks in it then have the flower he wears be a lilac or that color.
2006-10-28 18:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him is could have been pink instead that you asked him to wear. No just kidding. Explain the whole color thing to him and maybe he will go with it. Or just have him wear a white vest with the colored tie. Maybe he will go for that. Hope this helps and that he cooperates. I was afraid my fiance would not cooperate but he is. Perhaps time will change his mind.
2006-10-28 17:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by CGS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember, the wedding day is about the groom too - it's not all about you. Let the man wear what looks best on him and what he feels most comfortable in - and I can guarantee you it's not Lilac.
2006-10-28 22:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about settling for the man!! And not what he looks like! Pale gray will do just fine next to lilac..
2006-10-28 19:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure about this? How about just one or the other? Sometimes it looks good if all the groomsmen are wearing the "color" and the groom is in the more formal black and white, or grey and white, or tan and white. There are going to be lots of photos, and he has to feel comfortable. Come up with a compromise you both can live with.
2006-10-28 17:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by coffeytalk.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his wedding, too. Let him have some say. The wedding is only one day, the marriage is a lifetime. Don't start your life with him by trying to force him to be someone he's not. Men already fear that from their wives, don't give him anything to worry about before you're even married.
2006-10-28 19:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lilac? Can you at least wait until AFTER the wedding before you remove his genitals?
He should just kill himself right now and end this misery...
2006-10-28 22:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Goodluck! just pick another color or a dark purple. Compromising wont help either. I am still debating over pink but it doesnt look like I am going to win. Yes, it is both your wedding - I used it - doesnt work!
However, if he wants something you dont, then you bring in the color. And he still wont see this as compromising...
2006-10-29 06:51:43 · answer #11 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋