ok im having an issue with trust. Me and my bf have been togather for about 3 weeks now and he is so sexy and i kno alot of gurls want him but he says he is not the type to play games cuz he wouldnt want anyone to play games on him but my past rlationships are getting in the way of me seeing who he really is cuz i really wanna b with him but he treats me so good and ive never been treated like that and it makes it too good to b true like if something has to b wrong and im jus so confuse.
2006-10-28 10:45:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really hate to be blunt but it is called carrying baggage from your other relationships into the present relationship. And it can ruin this good thing you have with your present boyfriend. If he is that good, ACCEPT IT!!! And leave the baggage from your other relationships behind. Why ruin a good thing. Because if you are not careful. His sexyness and smile will brighten someone elses day. And I know you do not want that. There is a thing called true love out there and i think you have found it. It can last forever if you want. But it can also come crashing down on you if you do not stop bringing stuff up in your mind as you have said above. ACCEPT IT and be happy. Leave the past in the PAST you would be happier.
2006-10-28 10:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your instincts time will tell if he is going to be good to you. If you have been hurt in the past you always go into another relationship with somewhat distrust this will fade if he is right. And if not, if you never grow true feeelings for him then so be it. There are plenty of men out there that will treat a woman good but that doesn't mean that they will work for you. If you need a song to help you understand, Limewire George Strait You Can't Make a Heart Love Somebody, it puts it into wirds I can't explain.
2006-10-28 17:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have trust issues too, I'm really guarded, just try and forgt those old relationships and focus on what he is like, but I would still watch out, but whatever you do don't drill him to much that might be annoying to him, like nagging and that's pretty bad.
2006-10-28 17:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by what? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really likes you. Try talking to him about your past relationships. He will understand, and as the relationship I am sure that you will become more trusting.
2006-10-28 17:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋